Another comment about "quantum weirdness": It's true that "weird" is subjective. However, the list of respectable physicists who thought that there was something not completely understood about the foundations of QM is pretty long and impressive: Einstein, Bell, Bohm, Feynman (well, he said that nobody really understands QM, but he might have been being flippant), Everett, DeWitt, whoever it is who worked on stochastic QM, the "consistent histories" guys, Penrose*, T'Hooft, etc. There are dozens of alternative interpretations of QM: Bayesian and Many-Worlds and time-symmetric and superdeterministic interpretations and stochastic interpretations and explicitly nonlocal interpretations and on and on. This work is being done by professionals, not amateurs who learned about physics from Deepak Chopra. I don't think you can blame all the dissatisfaction on QM being presented in a sloppy way. If the foundations of QM were really firm, and understood, I don't think you would have all this ferment. Just for contrast, very soon after the introduction of SR, there were basically no professional physicists who felt the need to work on the foundations of relativity. There may have been some dissenters, but a tiny number, and they were not mainstream physicists.
*Penrose certainly doesn't believe that the foundations of QM have been settled, because he has suggested that gravity might be the reason for wave function collapse. I think that's pretty speculative and I don't take it very seriously, but the fact that Penrose would even venture such a speculation means that he doesn't consider the status of the wave function and collapse and so forth to be settled.