you seem to be asking why adding a finite number of terms is considered more basic than adding an infinite number of terms. the answer seems too obvious to respond to. hence no answers.
if you are asking for the history of the definition of a group, it started apparently with galois and legendre? trying to understand solution systems of algebraic equations. the key was to study the permutations of solutions. composing two permutations yields another permutation, the first example of a group operation (on two elements).the idea behind your question is very intelligent since it observes that infinite sums allow one to pass out of the realm of rationals. indeed the limitations of finite addition, in not allowing the study of irrationals, is one motivation for introducing infinite sums. ok we know how to add finitely many rationals, and we always get rationals. mow what happens if we try to add an infinite number of rationals?