Hello everyone!
As I am reading 'Reality' at the moment (and admittedly have been for over a year on and off), I decided to reply to this thread. I remember when I was considering buying it, and I think that the information I am going to give would have been quite valuable.
First off, I have no scientific qualifications or formal mathematical education beyond AS level.
If you want to read this book, learn precalculus and calculus. Get 'Calculus for Dummies' or any similar guide and practice until you are an expert. The simple matter of mathematic thought and practice manipulating algebra will 'prime' your brain ready to read this monstrous publication! Also, keep in touch with the pop-science community, and read whatever other more manageable books you can to become a smug little armchair scientist (though I suspect most people are anyhow).
Then begin. Tackle the book a page at a time, and for the first four chapters certainly try to do the exercises. If you cannot, re-read, re-read, and re-read again. Do research and find out more. This technique should carry you comfortably up to and through chapter 6 (Calculus).
You will then, as I did and everyone else does, get frustratingly confused and stuck on chapter 7. I do not know whether this chapter is just poorly written or over-simplified, but it is by far the hardest of the mathematical chapters. Re-read it until you get the gist, but move on after you get fed up with it; it might click into place later.
The next few chapters will wash over your mind as endless waffle and equations unless you really concentrate. So do this, and read it all over again. I returned to the chapter on n-dimensional manifolds last week and realized that I had completely missed the point! However, reading it again there was nothing that I didn't understand.
If you have the time (I read it on public buses and during 'dead time') and effort to invest, then certainly 'Reality' is one of the best ways to get in touch with modern physics and graduate level mathematics without actually getting a degree. In all honesty, I cannot give any information on the actual physics part since I haven't got that far! However, the explanation of general relativity is a tantalising 80 pages away!
It is slow reading. That is my overall review. But it is invaluable for those like myself who have not (yet) taken a degree in physics but want to be able to scrawl nonsense on a blackboard. :-)
(I made myself a massive one the week I bought the book; they really help!)
If anyone wants any advice or fancies teaching me chapter 7, just say. It's a great book, but it does not live up to promises of readability. Think of it more as a guide through the material required to understand modern physics; not a tutorial.
I hope this helps,
Regards
Lepilad