Roommate Attraction: My Story & Others

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A recent move from a male roommate situation to living with two female roommates has led to potential romantic tension. The individual feels one of the girls may have developed a crush, despite being unattracted to her personality. Concerns arise about how to navigate this situation without damaging the living arrangement, especially since the lease is a year long. Various suggestions are offered, including being honest about feelings, maintaining a platonic relationship, and evaluating the implications of any romantic involvement. The discussion highlights the importance of clear communication and the risks of casual relationships in a roommate context. Ultimately, the individual expresses contentment with the living situation but is wary of complications that could arise from romantic entanglements.
  • #31
Come and knock on our door,
We've been waiting for you.
Where the kisses are hers and hers and his
Three's company too.
 
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  • #32
She's playing with you. Flattering herself everytime she gets attention from you. Watch out though she migth just be a tease or unknowingly sending you the wrong signals (just being a natural flirt.) If you don't like her in that way and are enjoying being friends and room mates I would advise that you don't do anything with her past the lines of friendship.
 
  • #33
Manchot said:
Come and knock on our door,
We've been waiting for you.
Where the kisses are hers and hers and his
Three's company too.
:smile: :smile: :smile:
Just remember to pretend you're gay when Mr. Roper comes by.
 
  • #34
Ha, well basically my intuition was right, because things paced up A LOT, and A LOT faster than even my hopeful 20 year old male mind could imagine. Anyways, it was her who made the move (but apparently according to her I made the move) and as of now things stand mutually known as "roommates with accessibile fun" but already we are starting to do stuff that is more than that. We've been doing favors and talking about stuff that is very girlfriend/boyfriend like so I have my uncertainties about the scope of our relationship. I don't know, as of now things are going amazingly perfect, it is like something you would only hear about or see on TV, but I don't know what will happen if the circumstances change. Our other roommate doesn't officially know about things yet although she got home at a bad time and just went straight to her room for the night which makes me think she knew something was up. She mentioned it the next day and I just kind of denied it laughingly. We don't really feel obligated to call each other ever so I am happy and we see each other by incident rather than appointment so I guess I hope it stays that way.
 
  • #35
"roommates with accessibile fun"

You've died and gone to heaven, son.

Just remember to yell out a "thank you" to what/whomever/the cosmos next time you're outside looking at the stars.
 
  • #36
You should talk to the other roommate and see if she'd be up for a threesome.

it is like something you would only hear about or see on TV

Are you sure about that? I know a chap who has this girlfriend and she and her friend did a threesome with me a few times now. Plus she sets me up with her friends on a regular basis. If I'm not a special case than you need to get out more son. But I am extremely good looking mind you... Haha. No really though, if I was in university I would pay extra to get a room with two hot chicks.
 
  • #37
Ah, so you are obviously not the hardcore studier type. :biggrin:
 

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