Chris Miller said:
@jbriggs! I really appreciate your expressed (mild) confusion, and your gut's answer, which seems to apply more to the first scenario. But aren't time and distance always observer (frame of reference) dependent? How do these questions differ from textbook relativity problems? (I doubt I'd understand someone smarter than you's answer.)
I appreciate the back-handed compliment.
Textbook relativity problems (in the texts that I'd find understandable anyway) would be posed within the background of special relativity. In those environments, life is simple. Observer, frame of reference, coordinate system -- you can treat them all as pretty much interchangeable concepts.
In those problems, time is usually observer dependent. Though we also have proper time which is the invariant length of a time-like trajectory between two events. Obviously you can measure proper time directly with a wristwatch.
Distance is (to the best of my knowledge) almost always coordinate system dependent. Technically you have available an invariant notion of distance as the total length of a particular space-like trajectory between two events.
In flat space-time, the invariant distance between two space-like separated events or the invariant time between two time-like events is unambiguous. In curved space-time, the invariant distance or time between two suitably nearby events is still unambiguous. But over greater separations, there may be more than one unaccelerated (geodesic) trajectory between the two events. [It seems that "geodesic" can apply to the space-like case].
In the case at hand, we are trying to assess the "distance" between two world-lines rather than between two events. So that makes things messy. We are, by design, after a frame-relative measure rather than an invariant measure. So that makes things worse.
But...
Given a global standard of simultaneity, we could pick out a particular event on the far-away planet to match up with an event where we are located. We have a reasonably simple global topology so there should be a unique space-like geodesic between those two events. And we could, I expect, do a parallel transport of our local peculiar velocity along that geodesic to compute our velocity relative to any particular path segment. So we could integrate the contracted "length" of each path segment relative to our peculiar velocity and obtain a cumulative distance measure for the path.
One would expect that distance measure to then be massively length contracted relative to a more simplistic computation of invariant distance.
Alternately, we could use a light-like trajectory between the world lines. I am not 100% sure how one would associate a "distance" metric with the incremental segments of a light-like geodesic. Possibly it is as simple as dotting the parallel-transported four-velocity with the incremental segment displacement.