well probably i would go with apostol, especially since i noticed he does integral calculus thoroughly before differential, while courant does them roughly at the same time. but i own and recommend both books.
integration is the idea of defining areas and volumes and arclength and work, as limits of approximations. this is due to the ancient greeks.
calculus uses the fact that in the special case of continuously varying shapes, the derivative of the volume function is the area of the leading face, and uses this fact to compute the volume, or that the derivative of the area function is the length of the leading edge,...
the greeks already knew that the volume was determined by the area of these slices, but not precisely how to recover it from them, that's all. so its the introduction of differentiation and antidifferentiation as algebraic, or analytic processes, to augment and enhance the geometry of integration, that was added in modern times,
apostol shows as i recall, that after defining the integral as a limit of riemann sums, one can proceed to compute quite a lot of these sums and hence quite a lot of integrals, directly. usually today we just go right to the FTC using antidifferentiation, so quickly that we soon forget that riemann sums were ever involved.
as a result, students do not realize that some integrals are more easily computable by riemann sums than by antidifferentiation. that's why i put integrals like the one on the first page of my test. most of todays students simply say they do not know how to do it. they also claim that functions which are not continuous are not integrable.
It is entirely possible that a good high school student, like the ones who post here, can dispatch my calculus test with ease. In that case however, my point is that they still should NOT usually skip calc 1 or 2 in college and go on to non honors calc 2 or 3. Rather they should usually take a high level honors calc class like a spivak class, often from the beginning, to see the material done right, and to be in the company of the best students as well as the best teachers.
these AP courses are harming all the students, the good ones and the weak ones but in different ways. The weak students, and even the pretty good ones, are skipping my calc 1 and getting in over their heads in my calc 2. The strong ones are skipping my calc 1 or 2, getting into my calc 2 or 3, where they are able to do ok, but they are missing the more suitable spivak course that is designed for them, and they are missing having a top honors professor teach them.
well actually the AP course is functioning properly for students who use it to get into a good spivak course, but so few do that. we also have a mid range honors course, and students who take that lose AP credit. Since the students only have three choices, either the rather challenging spivak course, or the honors calc 1 but give up AP credit, or the non honors calc 2 or 3,, they usually choose unwisely the last option. of course that is the option they have been told AP courses are for, namely "ADVANCED PLACEMENT".
That name is almost completely a misnomer, as although high school AP courses do resemble many college courses today, precisely because those have watered down to accommodate AP students, they do not compare in difficulty, especially for students who only got a 3 or a 4, to courses like mine. and my course is not hard, but it is not entirely computation.
mathematics is not just about computation, but also and primarily about reasoning. in my experience there is little or no reasoning taught in an AP course, nor tested on an AP test. Many of my AP students did quite well on the part of my test where all they had to do was compute some antiderivatives. but when they were asked to compute an integral by a geometric series they did not even know what to do.
many of them did not even realize it was an infinite series, and just gave the sum of the first 4 terms.
they also did extremely well on the vector algebra part where all they had to do was arithmetic. but earlier when i asked them to figure out what arithmetic to do, they did poorly. so i too am dumbing down my calculus class to accommodate weak student preparation. for example very few would have succeeded in using vector algebra to show the median of an arbitrary triangle meet 2/3 of the way up each median.
so i just used the trivial question i asked as a means of reminding them of that geometric fact, and to verify they knew the basic vector operations. as soon as i asked something harder, like an angle, or a projection, most missed it.