You would have to define "infinitely thin cone". If you are talking about a mathematical cone, rather than a real conical object, then there is NO thickness. There are no "inside" and "outside" surfaces to talk about, just the one surface. I don't think there is a regularly given formula for a "cone with thickness" but it is not too difficult to come up with one. The thickness, I presume, is measured perpendicular to the two, "inside" and "outside", surfaces. That makes the radii and heights of the two cones a little tricky to calculate. Letting r_1 and h_1 be the radius and height of the "inside" surface and r_2 and h_2 be the radius and height of the "outside" surface, looking from the side we see two right triangles, one with legs of length r_1 and h_1, the other with legs of length r_2 and h_2. Since the altitude of any right triangle is the "geometric mean" of the lengths of the legs, the altitudes of the two right triangles are given by a_1= \sqrt{r_1h_1} and a_2= \sqrt{r_2h_2} and the "thickness" of the cone is the difference d= \sqrt{r_1h_1}- \sqrt{r_2h_2}.
So if we are given the radius and height, say, of the inner cone and thickness, d, we can calculate the radius and height of the outer cone and the find the surface area of the two cones. But it is NOT an easy calculation!