I have one trick that can narrow down the solution. There are five numbers right. The possible combinations of the parity of these numbers are
1. all odd
2. 1 even, 4 odd
and so on
However, we see that in the set of pairwise sums that are given, there are only 4 odd numbers. This shows that the solution can be of only the following two types (can be easily seen)
1. 1 even, 4 odd
2. 1 odd, 4 even
other combinations will give a different set of pairwise sums.
However, since we know a+b+c+d+e = 20. the solution must be of the form 1 even, 4 odd.
Say, the even number is a
then the pairwise sums of a, must be
a + b = 5
a + c = 7
a + d = 9
a + e = 17
thats all i got till now.
I don't think there is a systematic way as you have given. Since we do not know which set of numbers give which sums.
as u have said, if we assume a+b = 0, how can you be sure that it is the same a involved in a + c = 2? you could have two other numbers that give sum 2.
remember that the solution can be negative... they are not all positive. Assuming a<b<c<d<e, does not allow us two create algebraic equations as you have done