Rampaging elephants have been known to uproot trees and "mow down" telephone poles. (See for instance
http://www.historylink.org/File/5270). So I suspect that an attempt to make a mounting proof against an elephant will probably be expensive. It's not quite clear to me how the telephone poles failed - did the poles break, or were their foundations inadequate? (I suspect the later, especially given that the trees were listed as being uprooted).
In either case, I would think that It would be better to find a mounting system that doesn't irritate the elephants than to try to engineer one that can resist them. Which also allows us to pass the buck back to the zoologists :-). I wouldn't be surprised if there's an opportunity for a paper on the solution, once the problem is solved.
More research on the historical incident in question might give more insight into just what an elephants destructive capabilities are.
For the engineering aspects, I found
https://www.clear.rice.edu/mech403/HelpFiles/ImpactLoadFactors.pdf which looked interesting. If I'm reading the article right, you might need a beam (pole) that could support 100 or even 1000 elephants statically to withstand the dynamic impact force. I'd guess an elephant might weight between 5-10 tons, at the higher figure we'd need a beam that could support 10,000 tons. And foundations to match.
Using the approach from this paper, to get a better answer, one would need to estimate the velocity of impact of the elephant. I'm not going to hazard a guess, but just outline the general approach from the paper I mentioend. Conservatively assuming the efficiency factor is 100 percent, one would assume the pole had to store that much energy. (Perhaps one could argue that a lower efficiency is needed, I don't have a good grasp on it though.). This would give the peak deflection, a static analysis of the beam (which is the engineering model for the pole) would have to be done to assure that the beam (pole) didn't fail under these conditions.