You are not asking new questions. The vectors [itex]|\frac{1}{2}, \pm \frac{1}{2}\rangle[/itex], or equivalently the elementary spinors [tex]\chi_{+} = \begin{pmatrix} 1 \\ 0 \end{pmatrix} , \ \ \chi_{-} = \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ 1 \end{pmatrix} ,[/tex] span the lowest-dimensional representation space (your [itex]H_{1/2}[/itex]) of the spin group [itex]SU(2)[/itex]. This means that any vector [itex]|\psi \rangle \in H_{1/2}[/itex] can be written as [tex]|\psi \rangle = \sum_{m = \pm \frac{1}{2}} |\frac{1}{2} , m \rangle \langle \frac{1}{2} , m |\psi \rangle ,[/tex] or equivalently represented by the following (2-component) spinor [tex]\psi = \psi_{+}\chi_{+} + \psi_{-}\chi_{-} = \begin{pmatrix} \psi_{+} \\ \psi_{-} \end{pmatrix} ,[/tex] where [tex]\psi_{\pm} = \langle \frac{1}{2} , \pm \frac{1}{2}|\psi \rangle .[/tex] The above is just mathematics. To describe spin-1/2 particles we must take into account both the coordinate degrees of freedom and the spin degrees of freedom. In other words, spin-1/2 particles live in the direct product space of the infinite-dimensional space [itex]\big\{ |x \rangle \big\}[/itex] and the 2-dimensional spin space [itex]H_{1/2}[/itex]. So, in [itex]\big\{|x\rangle \big\} \otimes H_{1/2}[/itex], we have for the base ket [tex]|x , \frac{1}{2} , \pm \frac{1}{2} \rangle = |x \rangle \otimes |\frac{1}{2} , \pm \frac{1}{2} \rangle ,[/tex] and for the inner product we write [tex]\langle \psi |\phi \rangle = \sum_{m = \pm \frac{1}{2}} \int dx \ \langle \psi |x , \frac{1}{2}, m \rangle \langle x , \frac{1}{2} , m |\phi \rangle = \sum_{a = 1,2} \int dx \ \psi^{\ast}_{a}(x) \phi_{a}(x) .[/tex] Only in [itex]\big\{|x\rangle \big\} \otimes H_{1/2}[/itex] we can talk about the (2-component) wave function (or spinor “field”) for a particle with spin: [tex]\Psi (x) = \begin{pmatrix} \psi_{1}(x) \\ \psi_{2}(x) \end{pmatrix} = \begin{pmatrix} \langle x , \frac{1}{2} , + \frac{1}{2}|\psi \rangle \\ \langle x , \frac{1}{2} , - \frac{1}{2}|\psi \rangle \end{pmatrix} .[/tex]
Now, let’s talk about your concerns regarding the spin-1/2 nature of spinors and the relation to the spin transformation matrices. I will give you two convincing methods:
1) Dirac bispinor as a quantum-mechanical wave function
In order for the Dirac equation to be form invariant under Lorentz transformation [itex]x \to \Lambda x[/itex], the Dirac bispinor must transform according to [tex]\Psi (x) \to e^{- \frac{i}{4}S^{\mu\nu}\omega_{\mu\nu}} \Psi (\Lambda^{-1}x),[/tex] with [itex]S^{\mu\nu} = \frac{i}{2}[\gamma^{\mu} , \gamma^{\nu}][/itex]. In QM, the above transformation is implemented by unitary transformation [tex]\Psi (x) \to \mathcal{U}(\Lambda) \Psi (x) ,[/tex] on the Hilbert space of the Dirac wave function [itex]\Psi (x)[/itex]. Writing [itex]\mathcal{U} = e^{- \frac{i}{2}M^{\mu\nu}\omega_{\mu\nu}}[/itex], and expanding in the infinitesimal parameter [itex]\omega[/itex], we get [tex]\left( 1 - \frac{i}{2} \omega_{\mu\nu}M^{\mu\nu} \right) \Psi (x) = \left( 1 - \frac{i}{4} \omega_{\mu\nu}S^{\mu\nu} \right) \Psi ( x - \omega x ) .[/tex] Comparing first order terms, we get the following expression for the Hermitian operator [itex]M^{\mu\nu}[/itex] as the infinitesimal generator of Lorentz transformations [tex]M^{\mu\nu} = \frac{1}{2} S^{\mu\nu} + i ( x^{\mu}\partial^{\nu} - x^{\nu}\partial^{\mu}) . \ \ \ \ (1)[/tex]
Recall that the representations of the Poincare group are labelled by the eigenvalues of two Casimir operators [itex]P^{2} = P_{\mu}P^{\mu}[/itex] and [itex]W^{2} = W_{\mu}W^{\mu}[/itex]: [itex]P^{\mu}[/itex] is the energy-momentum operator (the infinitesimal generator of translations), whereas [itex]W_{\mu}[/itex] (the Pauli-Lubanski vector) is defined in terms of the infinitesimal generator of Lorentz transformations [itex]M^{\mu\nu}[/itex], as [tex]W_{\mu} = - \frac{1}{2} \epsilon_{\mu\nu\rho\sigma} \ M^{\nu\rho}P^{\sigma} . \ \ \ \ \ \ (2)[/tex] Now, if you substitute (1) and [itex]P^{\sigma} = i \partial^{\sigma}[/itex] in (2), you get [tex]W_{\mu} = \frac{i}{4} \epsilon_{\mu\nu\rho\sigma} \ S^{\nu\rho} \ \partial^{\sigma} .[/tex] Notice that the orbital contribution has disappeared, implying that [itex]S^{\mu\nu}[/itex] and, therefore, [itex]W_{\mu}[/itex] corresponds to spin angular momentum. Indeed, if we calculate [itex]W^{2}\Psi (x)[/itex] using the identity [tex]\epsilon_{\mu\nu\rho\sigma}\epsilon^{\mu}{}_{\bar{\nu}\bar{\rho}\bar{\sigma}} = - \begin{vmatrix}\eta_{\nu \bar{\nu}} & \eta_{\nu \bar{\rho}} & \eta_{\nu \bar{\sigma}} \\ \eta_{\rho \bar{\nu}} & \eta_{\rho \bar{\rho}} & \eta_{\rho \bar{\sigma}} \\ \eta_{\sigma \bar{\nu}} & \eta_{\sigma \bar{\rho}} & \eta_{\sigma \bar{\sigma}} \end{vmatrix} ,[/tex] and [itex]P^{2}\Psi = -\partial^{2}\Psi = m^{2}\Psi[/itex], we obtain [tex]W^{2}\Psi = - \frac{3}{4}m^{2}\Psi = - \frac{1}{2} \left( \frac{1}{2} + 1 \right) m^{2} \Psi .[/tex] Do you recognise the relation [itex]S^{2} = s (s + 1)[/itex]? And where did [itex]\frac{1}{2} ( \frac{1}{2} + 1)[/itex] above come from? In general, if [itex]m^{2}[/itex] is the eigenvalue of [itex]P^{2}[/itex], then [itex]W^{2}[/itex] takes only values of the form [tex]W^{2} = - m^{2} s (s + 1) ,[/tex] where [itex]s[/itex] is integer or half integer.
2) Dirac bispinor as field operator
This method is complicated and lengthy so I will use over-simplified version of it. The full treatment can be found in section 3-3-2 of the QFT text by Itzykson & Zuber.
In my previous post, we had the expression [tex]\vec{J} = \int d^{3}x \ \psi^{\dagger}(x) \left( \vec{x} \times \frac{1}{i} \vec{\nabla} + \vec{\Sigma} \right) \psi (x) .[/tex] Now, using the canonical equal-time anti-commutation relations for Dirac operators, it is easy to show that [tex]\big[ \vec{J} , \psi (x) \big] = \left( \vec{x} \times \frac{1}{i} \vec{\nabla} + \vec{\Sigma} \right) \psi (x).[/tex] Applying this to a left-handed spinor [itex]\chi_{a}(0)[/itex], we get [tex]\big[ J^{k} , \chi_{a}(0)\big] = \frac{1}{2} ( \sigma^{k})_{a}{}^{b} \chi_{b}(0).[/tex] In particular, for [itex]k = 3[/itex] we have [tex]\big[ J^{3} , \chi_{1}(0) \big] = \frac{1}{2} \chi_{1}(0), \ \ \ \ \ (3)[/tex] [tex]\big[ J^{3} , \chi_{2}(0) \big] = - \frac{1}{2} \chi_{2}(0). \ \ \ \ \[/tex] These are eigenvalues equations: Basically [itex]\chi_{1}(0) \sim a^{\dagger} + b[/itex] . So, if we use [itex]b |0 \rangle = 0[/itex], write [itex]a^{\dagger}|0\rangle = |a \rangle[/itex] and use the fact that Lorentz symmetry is not broken spontaneously, i.e., [itex]J^{3}|0 \rangle = 0[/itex], we see from (3) that type-a particle [tex]J^{3}|a \rangle = \frac{1}{2} |a \rangle ,[/tex] carries [itex]+ \frac{1}{2}[/itex] unit of angular momentum along the third axis.