The discussion centers around a controversial statement made by a Tilburg professor, A. Vingerhoets, who suggested that polygamy could alleviate financial burdens on the government, particularly concerning subsidized childcare. He argued that love is an outdated concept and proposed that sharing domestic responsibilities among multiple partners could benefit modern women juggling careers and family. The conversation quickly shifted to the practicality and implications of polygamy and polyandry, with participants debating the potential for hierarchical dynamics and the complications of child-rearing and property rights in such arrangements. Many expressed skepticism about the feasibility of polygamous relationships, citing trust issues and the emotional complexities involved. Alternative solutions, such as workplace daycare systems where parents share childcare responsibilities, were also discussed as a more practical approach to addressing the challenges of balancing work and family life. Overall, the thread highlights a mix of humor, skepticism, and serious consideration of the implications of non-traditional family structures.