Just an afterthought for #3 to avoid counting backwards. I'll do it with ##N = 11## members, so that ##2^m = 8##. And we want position 1 to survive.
First note that for ##8## members, you will survive by starting at ##2##
##1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7,8##
The evens go first, then the odds (3,7,5). As long as N is a power of 2, position 1 survives.
You need to place the remaining three members so that they go first, followed by ##2##. So you do:
##1, 2,3,4,5,6,X1,7,X2,8,X3##
And start with ##X1##.
In general, ##X1## will be in position:
##N - 2(N-2^m) +2 = 2^{m+1}- N +2##