Understanding Autism: How Can I Help My Friend?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around understanding autism and how to support a friend who has the condition. Participants explore the nature of autism, its classification, and the challenges faced in communication and social interactions. The conversation includes personal experiences and suggestions for better engagement with individuals on the autism spectrum.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses a desire to help their friend with autism but feels confused and upset by their interactions, noting that the friend has "fits" during conversations.
  • Another participant suggests that while it's kind to want to help, there may not be a clear way to do so, emphasizing the importance of avoiding actions that could upset the friend.
  • A different viewpoint classifies autism as a neurodevelopmental disorder, arguing against labeling it as a mental illness and highlighting its biological basis.
  • One participant notes that the physiology of autism is not fully understood, mentioning various theories about its causes and the diagnostic criteria based on social and communicative development.
  • Concerns are raised that the friend's "fits" may not be a direct reflection of the original poster's actions, suggesting they could be social tics rather than distress responses.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express differing views on the classification of autism and the best ways to support individuals with the condition. There is no consensus on a definitive approach to helping the friend, and the discussion remains unresolved regarding the nature of autism and effective support strategies.

Contextual Notes

Participants acknowledge the complexity of autism and the variability in individual experiences, which may affect communication and behavior. The discussion highlights the limitations in understanding autism's causes and the challenges in providing support.

Who May Find This Useful

Individuals seeking to understand autism better, those looking for ways to support friends or loved ones on the autism spectrum, and anyone interested in the complexities of neurodevelopmental disorders.

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I have a friend who has autism. I like to talk to him, but every time we do he always freaks out and has these little fits. I have tried to research information about autism but nothing seems to help. I’ve tried talking to him about autism but he can never stay on the subject for very long. I would like to know and understand his condition so I won't be so confused and upset. I would like to help him. How do I?
 
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marinebiopink said:
I have a friend who has autism. I like to talk to him, but every time we do he always freaks out and has these little fits. I have tried to research information about autism but nothing seems to help. I’ve tried talking to him about autism but he can never stay on the subject for very long. I would like to know and understand his condition so I won't be so confused and upset. I would like to help him. How do I?

I think it's sweet of you that you try to help him, but I don't think that there's any way to help him. The best you can do is to do things that won't upset him. I don't know what that is, but you could find that out.

Autism is a mental illness that causes people to be unable to relate to others. They don't understand and see the world we do. For example, they often don't see body talk or sarcasm. This causes them to have a very different view on the world. If you're feeling confused and upset, then try to imagine standing in his shoes, other people confuse and upset him even more!

Try to get to know him a little better (this is probably very difficult). See what he likes and what he doesn't like, maybe ask him about it. Good luck anways!
 
I would classify autism as a neurodevelopmental disorder rather than a "mental disorder" to clarify it further. It's very strongly biological. Not to say that there aren't social/psychological approaches that can help treat autism, but it's not something that can be "cured" through therapy.
 
The physiology of autism is still up in the air. There are theories as to its causes, some more credible than others, but we don't really know. Currently, doctors diagnose autism based on a checklist of characteristics describing an individual's social and communicative development. Significant impairment in both these areas is necessary and sufficient to diagnose autism; however, individuals with autism may have other forms of developmental delay, as well. Other factors, such as a fixation on particular objects or a tendency for repetitive behaviors, also factor into diagnosis. Often times, autistic individuals also have problems with anxiety or attention deficit disorder.

Regarding your friend, the "fits" he has are probably not a reflection of you or anything you're doing. Without more information on his behavior, I can't really say for sure, but it's probably just a sort of social tic-- unless he's really distressed, it's probably nothing to worry about or even really draw attention to outside of a therapeutic context. Does that help at all?
 
great info, thanks

regards.
 

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