Universities, boyfriends and lies

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around personal concerns regarding a relationship, specifically whether a boyfriend is being truthful about his educational background. The inquiry is prompted by a question about the practices of universities in reaching out to former students, particularly those who may have left their studies long ago. Participants share their thoughts on trust, paranoia in relationships, and the implications of differing values.

Discussion Character

  • Debate/contested
  • Conceptual clarification
  • Meta-discussion

Main Points Raised

  • One participant seeks confirmation on whether universities send invitations to former students to complete their education after many years.
  • Some participants suggest contacting the university registrar for accurate information.
  • There are discussions about the impact of paranoia on relationships, with some advising the original poster to confront her boyfriend about her suspicions.
  • Concerns are raised about the boyfriend's aggressive behavior and past, including legal issues and extremist affiliations, which contribute to the original poster's anxiety.
  • Participants express differing views on the importance of shared values in relationships, with some arguing that significant differences may lead to incompatibility.
  • Humor is introduced in the conversation regarding dating preferences and the challenges of finding compatible partners.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants do not reach a consensus on whether the original poster should break up with her boyfriend. While some express strong concerns about the relationship based on the boyfriend's behavior and beliefs, others focus on the importance of trust and communication.

Contextual Notes

Participants highlight various personal experiences and opinions, which may not apply universally. The discussion includes emotional and subjective elements that reflect individual perspectives on relationships and trust.

Who May Find This Useful

Individuals interested in relationship dynamics, trust issues, and the impact of differing values on personal connections may find this discussion relevant.

  • #91
LOL! :biggrin: ok!
 
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  • #92
That is what we call diplomacy.. :P
 
  • #93
mental note: don't piss of Norway
 
  • #94
Oh, and what is that supposed to mean?
 
  • #95
Well, if that is how you are diplomatic, I would hate to see you guys being UNdiplomatic! :biggrin:
 
  • #96
Ah! Case closed. Court adjourned.
 

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