Astronuc said:
Now interestingly we found out that if we do not contest their claim, or if we simply allow the son-in-law to use that property, we actually risk losing some of our property, i.e. we forfeit the property if we don't prevent the son-in-law from using it! It doesn't matter that we have an approved survey map! What kind of system is that, where one has to actively prevent encroachment of a neighbor onto one's property??
Here in Maine, you do not lose the ownership of the property, but by allowing someone to use the property for a certain purpose (like crossing a piece of your property routinely to get to a part of their property), you have allowed the establishment of an easment. This easment allows the person to continue using your property in the same manner, if he wishes. The property is still yours, but you have allowed the other person to establish the right to use it for a certain porpose. Check your state laws - there are probably some limits on the types of usage and some time limits, too.
Astronuc said:
On the positive side, our strawberries are coming in, I now have 8 new blackberry canes and the plants are doing well. The blueberries have fruited, and I just planted a new variety of rhubard with red stalks as opposed to green or green and faint red. And I planted some zucchini and summer squash - I just hope the squash borers don't get them.
Our garden is all planted, now, including 24 habanero plants, 36 tomato plants, and wide raised beds of cucumbers, squash, peas, beans, spinach, carrots, turnip, beets, mixed greens, and more. Not to mention a huge bed of swiss chard - we blanched and froze some last year and it was delicious. Just cut the mature leaves, and the plants keep producing more, right up until a very hard frost.
I took a walk down back yesterday, and the wild blackberries are as thick as can be. I'm going to give them some organic fertilizer, and feed the wild raspberries, blueberries, etc, too. We were going to transplant some rhubarb, but we use so little of it that we can easily get all we need from friends. Instead, we transplanted some wild elderberry bushes in that little corner space. Elderberry juice is good stuff, but it is ridiculously expensive, so we hope to get a good clump of bushes going so we can make our own. Our front lawn is now an orchard, although all the "trees" are only 3-4 ft tall - we decided to buy our trees as bare-root stock from the Arbor Day Foundation instead of buying them from nurseries and paying more than 10x as much per tree. After figuring in the 10 free ornamental trees that we got for our membership, and the free red maple and forsythias, we have less than $5 each in the trees - a pretty good deal if you are patient and want to grow your own trees.