What do you say to a man with less than two days to live?

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The discussion revolves around the emotional challenges of saying goodbye to a loved one nearing the end of life, specifically a grandfather with terminal illness. Participants share their experiences and offer advice on how to approach such sensitive moments. Key points include the importance of simply being present, as words may feel inadequate. Many suggest reminiscing about shared memories to foster connection and comfort. Asking for advice from the dying person is also recommended, as it can provide them with a sense of purpose and significance. Expressions of love and gratitude are emphasized, with many recalling the impact of their last words to loved ones. The conversation highlights the universal struggle of facing mortality and the value of cherishing final moments, regardless of the difficulty in finding the right words.
  • #31
Jack21222 said:
Funeral is today, leaving in a few minutes. On one hand, I *really* don't want to go. On the other hand, I *really* don't want to miss it, and that second feeling is stronger.

My grandfather died on Wednesday, right after my mother and I stepped out to get some lunch. My uncle and his wife had left for a few minutes at the same time, so the only person there when he died was his long-term girlfriend of 35 years.

That's a good way to go in my view. You're doing the right thing, going to the funeral... it'll hurt, then it'll help.

For your grandfather... "Anima eius et animae omnium fidelium defunctorum per Dei misericordiam requiescant in pace."
 
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  • #32
Truly sorry for your loss Jack.
 
  • #33
My condolences to you and to your family.
 
  • #34
Condolences Jack.
 
  • #35
My condolences to you and your family, Jack.
 
  • #36
Hope he rest in peace. My condolences.
 
  • #37
I think I'd mostly listen.
 
  • #38
My condolences also, Jack.
 

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