Where the heck does a girl find a nerd around here?

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The discussion centers on a person's quest to find a nerdy, intelligent partner, specifically in New Zealand. The original poster expresses a strong preference for geeky guys who appreciate science and have unique interests, like discussing thermodynamics or enjoying quirky items like a periodic table shower curtain. Suggestions for meeting such individuals include exploring university environments, particularly physics and engineering departments, as well as attending science-related events and workshops. Participants emphasize the importance of venturing outside familiar social circles to discover where nerds might congregate. They also highlight that nerds can be found in unexpected places, like libraries or tech meetups, and suggest engaging in conversations about niche topics to break the ice. Overall, the conversation combines humor with practical advice on finding a compatible partner in the nerd community.
  • #31


webbwbb said:
Try applying for some type of job with a local engineering firm. Even if you don't get the job you will have a good reason to be there and every person you meet will be a total nerd.

Speaking from experience there?

In fact, my experience was the total opposite. Only a few nerds, well, one, well, two if you count me (I don't but others would disagree).
 
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  • #32


Astronuc, pentode, schmentode. What one really needs is a Nixie Tube watch.

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Only $395.
 
  • #33


Astronuc said:
I would imagine that one could wait outside the class for SR or QM or . . . . and find a group of individuals of interest.

I used to spend time in the reading room of the physics department. That's where the latest issues of various journals would be kept.

Or one could visit the EE or other engineering departments.

Or library.


I remember the problem of the infinite mesh of 1 ohm resistors.

And, believe it or not, you can sometimes find nerds in a store aisle searching for razors or shaving cream.

Did I ever tell you you're a hippy? In the last couple weeks, at least? :smile:

(But, he's a hippy nerd and that's an important distinction.)
 
  • #34


Astronuc said:
Find one of these, and a nerd is nearby.

To initiate a conversation, causally mention the term "pentode".
I built a crude web-site to help other tube-nuts identify the various vacuum tubes by their physical characteristics. The paint on the envelope is not reliable, since the manufacturers often sub-contracted large contracts out to their competitors. Hosted by a good friend of mine who works at Berkeley.

Old 12AX7's and their variants can sometimes be found in really good condition at ham-club swap meets. They are highly prized by people like myself who repair or restore old guitar amps. The trick is to know what you're looking at - for instance not to pay $$ for a reproduction Telefunken when it can be ruled out as a repo worth maybe a couple of bucks.

http://www.eecs.berkeley.edu/~loarie/12ax7.html
 
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  • #35


Sorry, I don't know any nerds. But my wife knows one. I'll ask her.
 
  • #36


FlexGunship said:
I'm pretty darn nerdy! I like trivia contests, and building things, and I'm an engineer and my bookshelf is full of Brian Greene and Michio Kaku books!



EDIT: Yes, that is a periodic table shower curtain in my condo.

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The shower curtain is a nice touch, but what is all that other junk laying on the bathroom floor? Is that a cooking pot?!

And your towels look black! Don't you ever wash them?!
 
  • #37


BobG said:
The shower curtain is a nice touch, but what is all that other junk laying on the bathroom floor? Is that a cooking pot?!

And your towels look black! Don't you ever wash them?!

Blue towels, dirty laundry and a bin!
 
  • #38


I think nerdy guys hang out in nerdy places. I myself like to go to sciency places like the Maker Fair or science museums. I also do a lot of alternative energy based workshops and classes at and around school. These kind of events always end up being sausage fests, so as the saying goes: "The odds are good, but the goods are odd".
would be willing to whisper the laws of thermodynamics into my ear whilst we were partaking in "special" relations

HAHA! I've actually done this! Second Law FTW!PS: The answer to the resistor grid question in the comic several posts above is 0.5 ohms.
 
  • #39


My advice: look around the aerospace engineering departments. (For, uh, no particular reason whatsoever...:wink:)
 
  • #40


Topher925 said:
PS: The answer to the resistor grid question in the comic several posts above is 0.5 ohms.

No.

(We've had this cartoon posted before a little over three years ago.)
 
  • #41


Topher925 said:
These kind of events always end up being sausage fests, so as the saying goes: "The odds are good, but the goods are odd".

Same here: when I've gone to tech meetups I've been one of maybe 3 girls, but some of the guys are actually hot so it's not all odd goods. Meetup New Zealand, though my experience has been with meetup NY (which has huge tech scene).

Oh, and Flex, you are a cutie.

Oh, and some company was giving out slide rules as recruitment swag 2 or 3 years back, so I've got a dinky one in a drawer somewhere. Try crashing yours, or ask your friends to. Or your relatives may have one: my grammy has one from her stint as an engineer.
 
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  • #42


Topher925 said:
HAHA! I've actually done this! Second Law FTW!

You've got to be kidding. That's just weird!
 
  • #43


cristo said:
You've got to be kidding. That's just weird!

I agree - I mean, the second law of thermodynamics :confused:? Now if it had been Newton's first law...a body in motion...yeah, I can see how that can work...
 
  • #44


Nah, really? And how about all those bodies that remain in a state of rest?
 
  • #45


BobG said:
And, believe it or not, you can sometimes find nerds in a store aisle searching for razors or shaving cream.

Did I ever tell you you're a hippy? In the last couple weeks, at least? :smile:

(But, he's a hippy nerd and that's an important distinction.)
Hmm - I've been called a hippy, but not a nerd. In high school, I did Explorers for several years since the post was hosted by Exxon's Research and Development Center. I think most of the guys would have qualified as nerds. They were mostly guys interested in math, science and computer, and not very atheletic.

I participated in sports in high school, played football and soccer, but not on the varsity team. I did weight lifting with the equipment the football team used. And I ran, and rode a bike. At 16, I could have easily lifted my father over my head.

And I had an interest in math and science, particularly astrophysics, nuclear and particle physics.

At university I played intramural sports, ran long distance, worked as a plumber and later as an iron worker.

While I had friends, I was pretty much a loner, and did my own thing.

I'm not exactly sure about what qualifies one to be a nerd these days.

I think there are plenty of athletic types who are also proficient in math and science. Several of the guys with whom I work are into motorcycles and sports cars, outdoor activities (like climbing, trekking, hiking, surfing, . . . ), and one guy is a black belt in Shaolin Kempo.
 
  • #46


cristo said:
You've got to be kidding. That's just weird!

Yeah I know, I thought so too, but whatever bakes your cake. Its certainly better than what a lot of the other stuff people are into these days though.
No.

Whoops, you're right. 0.5Ohms is the resistance across one resistor. I didn't notice the two red dots.
 
  • #47


Vanadium 50 said:
Astronuc, pentode, schmentode. What one really needs is a Nixie Tube watch.

nwrd-viewing-tn.jpg


Only $395.

Oooh... what a girl really needs is a guy that will give her a gift like that. :!)

Slide rules are a dime a dozen. I've already got a few slide rules of my own, and I'll inherit my deceased father's collection when my mom finally parts with it.
 
  • #48


physics girl phd said:
Oooh... what a girl really needs is a guy that will give her a gift like that.

Valentine's Day is coming. Feel free to print out the picture and leave it where the hubby will find it.
 
  • #50


Aww, I wish this thread wouldn't die. Zoe PM'd me like 3 days ago and I never got back to her. Sigh... bad timing.
 
  • #51


Vanadium 50 said:
Valentine's Day is coming. Feel free to print out the picture and leave it where the hubby will find it.

Phuh. That didn't work last Xmas. Instead "the guys" got me (aka. themselves) a stray cat.
 

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