My family played poker at every gathering. Grandpa taught me poker basics when I was age five. Soon I was the only child playing at the adult table. Not realizing that paying into the pot when Cousin Norma (obviously) made her flush was half the fun for family games, I guarded my pennies relentlessly.
I learned most poker/ rummy variations but 7-card stud is my game. With only 52 cards in the deck and many exposed cards, it is easy to remember what cards were exposed and recompute odds of completing hands. Hold-Em only shows you 2 cards before the flop. Seven-stud shows you 3 cards plus each players top card. So, I could memorize 10 cards before betting a cent.
"Amarillo Slim" Preston once told me while leading a group of cross-roaders* at the original Hilton Hotel in Las Vegas, that true 7-card stud would be replaced by the much easier Texas Hold-Em. Slim and Doyle Brunson among other poker experts convinced casino executives that Hold-Em allowed more players per table and more marks (tourists, suckers, players) per hand plus enormous rakes** as most marks never count the pot. So, I lost my edge seeing cards and most profit due to excessive rakes.
This is beginners stuff. The real fun in live poker involves
position; i.e., geometry. Knowing and exploiting changing order of play as the hand develops. Simple example: given two pocket aces, would you rather be the first to act each round or the last? A pro might invest many chips to eliminate a conservative player with better position leaving marks in poor position.
Once I learned to recognize colluding card cheats, I welcomed them in fixed-rate poker games. Their general lack of skill, obvious tells and signals, and tendency to drive up the pot with dubious raises made me more money than beating honest players. BTW this lead to my conversations with Slim Preston.
I gave up poker for moral reasons. Hobbies and work carry over into your social life. Poker, not unlike American football, emphasizes misdirection and deception; both character traits I seek to avoid not cultivate. I play low stakes low-ball, draw poker or Hold-Em rarely, mainly to chuckle at the inept cheaters but leave before the desperate losers start chasing.
*cross-roaders: groups of organized sociopaths expert at cheating and fleecing marks.
**rake: derived from a croupier's stick; the house removes a percentage from every pot.
P.S. I read post #3's "Book of Poker Tells" from the public library. Not bad. Phil's advice about not becoming "glued to your seat" is wise, though that might be from a different book.
