The discussion centers on the expectation of gravitons in the context of gravity being described as curved spacetime. While some argue that gravitons are not inevitable, others suggest that if gravity has a quantum nature, gravitons could serve as effective descriptions of gravitational interactions, similar to how photons describe electromagnetic waves. The conversation highlights the theoretical inconsistencies between the Standard Model of Particle Physics and General Relativity, suggesting that a quantum gravity theory, potentially involving gravitons, could reconcile these differences. However, creating a workable quantum gravity theory remains a significant challenge, as many approaches, including loop quantum gravity, imply the existence of gravitons in a low-energy limit. Ultimately, the expectation of gravitons arises from the need to quantize gravity, despite the complexities involved in doing so.