Hi, Peter.
I will do my best to outline where this methodology/thought process comes from. I apologize in advance if I seem to ramble a bit in places. The first section of the response outlines the thought process from a general point of view. The second section then applies the ideas to your specific question.
Section 1:
- The first and most important point bar none is that someone showed/taught me this method (as I am trying to show you now). It's not nearly as difficult to find a hidden treasure when you (basically) know where it's buried. I cannot stress this point enough. Furthermore, I hope it resonates and reassures you that you are doing the right thing by asking questions. I also hope it helps take some of the pressure off your own studies to know that you're seeing the application of an idea, not the invention of it.
- Once you know to think along these lines, trying to reverse-engineering the reasoning behind them is a great exercise (and is why your question is a good one). Perhaps it would look something like this:
Q: What is it we want to show?
A: We want to show this set is open.
Q: Is there a theorem or definition we know that tells us when a set is open?
A: Hmm...Aha! We know that, by definition, a continuous function from one space to another is one with the property that the preimage of any open set in the codomain space is open in the domain space.
Q: How can we actually apply this idea when the time comes?
A: We can try to recognize the defining characteristic of the set we are interested in (in this case $O_{j}$) as a restriction on the range of a certain function (which we must identify). If we are able to do this, then the set we are interested in is, by definition, the pre-image of the restricted range of the function. Note: This is in some sense akin to computing definite integrals using the Fundamental Theorem of Calculus. You want to try to view the integrand as the derivative of some function (which you must figure out). IF you can find this (so-called) antiderivative, the theorem tells you how to calculate the original integral.
This method of seeing a new technique, then trying to reverse-engineer the reasoning behind it is one of the best ways to truly internalize new ideas. Creating a sequence of smaller leading questions to get to a final question whose answer you know (i.e., the new method you've been introduced to) can be quite helpful. If you're familiar with the film, think Tom Cruise in the final scene of "A Few Good Men." He knows the answer his witness wants to give, he just needs to ask the right sequence of smaller leading questions before the witness will say the thing that ties the entire case together.
Section 2:
- Being primed to think in terms of pre-images of continuous functions, the primary step to solving the problem regarding the openness of $O_{j}$ is converted into a question of whether we can view the defining characteristic of points in the set $O_{j}$ as some sort of restriction on a function (as mentioned above, this is like you knowing the Fundamental Theorem of Calculus already and you just need to know if you can think of the integrand as the derivative of some function or not). The condition defining $O_{j}$ is the set of all $x\in\mathbb{R}^{n}$, such that
$\|x-y\|>1/j,$
where $y$ is some fixed element of $\mathbb{R}^{n}$. In words, the inequality is saying that the real number $\|x-y\|$ must be strictly larger than $1/j.$ This leads us to consider the interval $(1/j,\infty).$ Now, how did we go from thinking of $x$ and $y$ as being elements of $\mathbb{R}^{n}$ to thinking about the real number $\|x-y\|$? We must have applied a function from $\mathbb{R}^{n}$ to $\mathbb{R}$. This is the norm function, which we knew to be continuous from your previous post.
We have $f_{y}^{-1}\Big((1/j,\infty)\Big)=\{x\in\mathbb{R}^{n}:f_{y}(x)>1/j\}=\{x\in\mathbb{R}^{n}:\|x-y\|>1/j\}=O_{j},$ where the first equality is the definition of pre-image, the second is the definition of $f_{y}(x)$, and the third is the definition of $O_{j}$.
I hope this post was coherent enough to make sense of and that it helps answer your question of how to "see" the answer.