I'm trying, but it still doesn't feel right and I'm sure my phrasing is all wrong.
The "broadest" vector state product is the Cartesian product, and it includes the "new product" terms that one might try to associate with classical multiplying. The tensor product somehow eliminates those terms.
But classical multiplying is all about mixing, and its application expresses an interaction between elements. The tensor product provides a type of vector stae multiplication that works such that associative and communicative laws hold, but so does classical multiplication in its domain. The subtleties of what the tensor product operation actually represents and the nature of what is being excluded escapes me.
Saying that it represents all the possible states of two fully independent electron's spin vectors is well and fine, and I see the value of it in subsequent manipulations, but I don't get the why of it.