Why get married? Why have children?

Thread starter Loren Booda
Start date Apr 17, 2009
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The discussion centers around the complexities and fears surrounding marriage and parenthood, particularly from the perspective of individuals who have chosen not to marry or have children by age 50. Key points include concerns about the risks of divorce, emotional compatibility, and the unpredictability of choosing a lifelong partner. The original poster expresses a strong bond with a long-term girlfriend but feels hesitant to marry due to financial concerns and the desire to avoid passing on a serious genetic illness to potential children. Participants share their own experiences, highlighting cultural differences regarding marriage and children, and the emotional and financial implications of these life choices. Some argue that marriage can enhance happiness and stability, while others emphasize the freedom and lack of pressure that comes with remaining single. The conversation also touches on the challenges of parenting, with mixed feelings about the responsibilities and joys of raising children. Overall, the thread reflects a deep exploration of personal values, societal expectations, and the varying definitions of fulfillment in life choices related to marriage and family.

Apr 20, 2009

Dadface

There is a strong anti marriage feeling in this thread but things can
change when you least expect them to:

Some enchanted evening.
You may meet a stranger.
You may meet a stranger.
Across a crowded room.

If anyone is not prepared for marriage quite yet avoid crowded rooms on enchanted evenings.But there are other hazards.I met the Mrs when she was walking down the street singing Doo Wah Diddy Diddy Dum Diddy Doo.

Last edited: Apr 20, 2009