The vector in my equation \vec{r}_{12} = ( x_2 - x_1 , y_2 - y_1, z_2 - z_1 ) written out in component form. Similarly the vector \vec{F} = (F_x,F_y, F_z ) . Each component of the left hand side and right hand side are equal, which gives you your three equations. Does that make sense? Can you...