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Adyssa
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I'm going to go ahead and put this to the board, figure I might as well. I'm 30 years old, and a pretty quiet person. Friendly, polite, but stand-offish with most people. Anyway, enough with the background.
There's a girl at my work who I think is great. She's gorgeous, a little reserved, and has a lovely manner. I found out she's 21, I thought she was a bit older than that. I work pretty hard and keep to myself and I don't make big attempts to speak to her, although we have conversed here and there.
I'm not about to make any drastic moves, but I can't help wondering if I should pursue this, and the age gap has me kind of awkward. If I think back to my little sister being 21, I think my parents would have freaked if she brought home a 30 year old, but at the same time I think I'm mature enough to realize that people are people, and while I'm no beacon of virtue I'm not a dirty old idiot either. I've hardly spoken to a girl in about 8 years, might as well have been a priest for all the chaste I practise.
So I'll throw it out there, any thoughts?
Funny how I chose this forum to ask, but I enjoy the intelligent discourse. :)
There's a girl at my work who I think is great. She's gorgeous, a little reserved, and has a lovely manner. I found out she's 21, I thought she was a bit older than that. I work pretty hard and keep to myself and I don't make big attempts to speak to her, although we have conversed here and there.
I'm not about to make any drastic moves, but I can't help wondering if I should pursue this, and the age gap has me kind of awkward. If I think back to my little sister being 21, I think my parents would have freaked if she brought home a 30 year old, but at the same time I think I'm mature enough to realize that people are people, and while I'm no beacon of virtue I'm not a dirty old idiot either. I've hardly spoken to a girl in about 8 years, might as well have been a priest for all the chaste I practise.
So I'll throw it out there, any thoughts?
Funny how I chose this forum to ask, but I enjoy the intelligent discourse. :)