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Well, recently I've been feeling highly demotivated about partying/going out, etc. I mean, I do go out and have fun occasionaly, but not so often as my friends. I simply don't find it exciting at the moment. What about you people?
Cyclovenom said:Partying doesn't help me in my studies at all, but it is needed once in a while to change the atmosphere and redudancy of college.
G01 said:My friends and I usually go out once a week, but since we don't really go nuts,(we just hang out, get food etc.) I don't think it counts as "partying" in the traditional college sense.
Evo said:Sorry Radou, had to edit your poll to add "never".
Hmmm. We'll have to do something about that.Sorry Radou, had to edit your poll to add "never".
radou said:Hence, it does help you in your studies in a way.
Yes, that's exactly why.Crosson said:A reason for a party to suck, is if you are not happy being human and you just want to be a physics recluse.
Crosson said:The Canadian government taxes booze to reduce consumption, not to make a profit like the US.
Crosson said:A reason for a party to suck, is if you are not happy being human and you just want to be a physics recluse.
Same thing, I guess. Although you have to find the relationship for you if you want one, I also just don't like to hang around or talk with most people. There are several less than ten people that I would give up a day by myself writing music, or doing math, or physics, or video editing, or reading books, or browsing the internet, or pondering my philosophies, to go hang out with.moe darklight said:I don't know why "recluse" has such a bad connotation.
I go out often and have plenty of friends and all that, but I really enjoy the time I have to myself too, and I much rather spend the majority of my week by myself than with people.
I don't hate myself or people, I just need time to myself to do things I like doing without company like play music or write or edit video, learn new things, all that... even just sit by the window and think. ... I don't see myself getting married, my longest relationship was about 2 weeks lol (surprise ).
Four said:I finished first year of university and got hired as a programmer hopefully I'll be able to make enough money to do something. I start work tomorow.
Crosson said:I don't go out and party (because I don't drink alcohol), but I go to afternoon-evening gatherings nearly everyday.
moe darklight said:about once a week... some weeks more, some weeks I just stay home. My friends do it every day rain or shine... I don't know how they do it. I can't spend that much time with people. I need my time alone and lots of it or I go insane.
Cyclovenom said:Sometimes, i might smoke depending on the event and if there are cigars .
Mk said:Yes, that's exactly why.
I don't like parties because there are people there I do not know, basically. If I could invite specific people to my own party, then I would love that a lot. Except I also hate hosting parties, so that's too bad.
Astronuc said:I'd help out in the kitchen with the preparation of dinner and then afterward to clean up. That's where I met my wife. She used to help out in the kitchen also, so we eventually used the opportunity to talk.
Astronuc said:As for dating, I definitely didn't go to bars, which would be rather counterproductive, and I was not interested in dating women who wanted to go to bars. Dating is a chance to learn about the other person in a mutual exchange. Dating involved going to the park, zoo, a movie or concert, or having a quiet meal in a nice restaurant or perhaps some specialty family restaurant, like Leo's mexican food, or a particular BBQ joint.
As I got toward grad school, the beer drinking got way less, and really only with meals.
Yes! My team is almost in the lead!Btw, Evo, seems that adding the "never" option to the poll was useful after all.
That may be the case, but one does not have to do what everyone else does. If I'm on a date, I don't want to be in a noisy and crowded place.I agree about dating locations, but bars and coffee shops are such a dominant way of socializing (at least where I live),
Out as in out and about. Out of one's domicile, dwelling, quarters, lodging, abode, house, i.e. one's primary residence or principal habitat, usually with the intent of socializing, with or without the accompaniment of a companion.hrw said:Out? As in out-of-doors?
Crosson said:The bars over there are sooo nice and snazzy, they are almost worth the insane prices.