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rumpyson
right so, I am pretty sure I am over protective of my girlfriend. we are living together and its only our 4 month on the 23rd this month, i know bit soon but its going ok. until i met her best friend, she's just turned 17, we are both 18 almost 19 but this friend is still immature and going out and partying a lot where we have been through it and settled a bit. but she just broke up with her boyfriend so she's been seeing my girlfriend a lot more and aimee(my girlfriend) is going along with it. ye that's kewl and all but i simply ask her to do it when I am at work so i can come home after a 12 hour day and spend time with her and watch a movie or something you know. but instead i get this dick head rock up unexpectedly and aimee drops everything for her. i get quite angry about it and sort of for a good reason but still stupid most the time. but she's just resently told me she's going away for 2 days with her. up north somewhere and its in a few days. she is going at 4 in arvo and won't be back until 2 days afternoon. so ill be doing nothing in a house that isn't mine. she is the reason i moved in obviously so i feel out of place when she isn't home with me. but I am getting angry at her for wanting to go, mainly because i don't like her friend for the immaturity and she changes aimee when she is around. so she treats me differently and doesn't talk to me and snobby or what ever. but I am just wondering. how do i get over her best friend and think positively about her going, and let her do it for her. but i can't be without her, i have trouble letting her go out without me and all the rest that comes with it. just asking different opinions on how to change how i react. I've been a bit alone my whole life, no family just me and mum and not many friends. so its like she's huge in my life and we love each other so its hard for me to let her go without me because it brings back the lonelyness and it doesn't feel nice, so yea help me out please guys