Borek said:
What I am aiming at is that I am not sure our philosophy of teaching chemistry is right. Quite too often we say things like
only to explain the students later that is a BS that we told them earlier, but in the reality the rule is blah blah blah (again, this rule hod only till we tell them it wasn't true either). So in practice we want them first to learn something as a principle/rule, then we want them to unlearn it. They tend to remember what they were told first.
I'd agree chemistry is the hardest thing to teach.
Well, that's my excuse for not knowing it very well! :shy:
What would you recommend me to read to accede to the higher-level BS you mention? What do you teach?

I am not sure that a bit of learning and unlearning is not a good or nec. thing.
Remembering what they were told first is better than remembering nothing.
In mathematics would you pitch students into what mathematicians regard as fully rigorous from the start, which seems to have happened with the result of students not knowing what it was about or the point of it even when they could do the excercises?
Borek said:
Do they?
CO doesn't react with water to create H2CO2 that will dissociate to CO22-, so you have to remember CO is an exclusion.
CO2 reacts with water to give H2CO3 - OK. But then you may expect NO2 to react with water to create H2NO3. It doesn't. So you have to remember NO2 is an exclusion.
NO? N2O? What about H3PO2 - which oxide does it come from? Exclusion, exclusion, exclusion.
It is too erratic - it can be applied to some acids, but it leaves other unexplained for no apparent reason - the only reason being "that's just the way it is" - and thus can be confusing.
I am not fully sure of this. Maybe mine was a simplified overstatement. Maybe if I say instead of 'react' by 'formally can think of as product of reaction of the oxide with water'? That was really to the point of where the OP was stuck.
+ Maybe if I said for the 'normal' valencies/oxidation states predicted by octet rules etc. - for N and P +3 and +5?
Actually chemistry seems like learning verbs in foreign languages, there are regular and irregular conjugations/declensions; fortunately the regular ones take you farther in chemistry than in languages. The student can be given a certain predictive power that the above valencies fit into, but nitrogen has a lot of irregular verbs that can be rationalised but hardly predicted. And would it be fair to say that most of the unpredictable irregulars are concentrated in the first long row of the periodic table where atoms and valency electrons are more on top of each other?
And even then I am not sure that even all your exclusions really are.
Can you not regard CO as the anhydride of formic acid? After all the reverse (dehydration) reaction does happen and is even a practical lab. method for making CO.
I had never heard of hydrides of N
2O till yesterday but apparently nitroxyl HNO and hyponitrous acid H
2N
2O
2 exist even have applications.
For H
3PO
2 I said the oxides generated oxyacids not that every acid came from an oxide, anyway that is sort of coming from a hydride isn't it?