I think I found out how to do this. Are my steps right?
Let x be an element in the kernel of T. Since TT*x = T*Tx = T*0=0, (TT*x,x) = 0 where (,) indicates the inner product.
Then, (TT*x,x) = (T*x,T*x) = ||T*x||^2 = 0 so T*x = 0 and x is in the kernel of T*. The other way can be done similarly...