zoobyshoe said:
I am not totally sure these are the same story. Curious3141's version doen't have the important piece of equipment and ridicule by authorities elements of Ultima's story.
That's all I could find after a moderately exhaustive search for a good reference.
You are right, zooby, my story is far less "colorful"/"convincing" than the one hinted at by Ultima. Which goes to show that anecdotal accounts change profoundly in the retelling, as they get embellished and polished by countless lips and tongues. Finally, the story becomes wildly different from the original (if there ever really was an original to begin with). In a word, they are unreliable. Of such stuff are myths, fairy tales and major world religions made.
There was a time in my life I was interested in the study of coincidence and synchronicity. I briefly read Carl Jung on it, discarded his notions as being arrant unprovable nonsense for the most part. But there was one incident that sticks in my mind as being an especially significant (statistically improbable) coincidence. Here's the story.
This happened about a decade ago, I think. At the very least 8 years ago. I was in my medical undergrad days, and like all highly lazy people was looking to get through the thing as quickly and as painlessly as possible, with the absolute minimum of effort. So I got interested in speed-reading around this time. (As it turned out, I found all those techniques to be useless, I just settled on my own style, which was fairly quick yet retentive - but I digress).
My friend and I were out seeing a movie at a shopping center with a cinema incorporated within it. After the movie, we were just browsing around the shops with no real aim, when he spotted a (to him) unfamiliar device in the window of a music store. When asked what that was, I answered that it was a "metronome", and that it was used to time music, with the adjustable bob setting the period of the pendulum, etc.
Directly after the music store was a book store. We wandered in and drifted to the self-help section. I was the first to pick out a book, and the book I picked out was one on speed reading. This was not improbable given my interest in the subject at the time. What *was* improbable was what happened next : I flipped open the book at random to somewhere in the middle and it was the title page of a chapter entitled : "Using a metronome to time your speedreading" (or something to that effect).
What are the odds, eh ? First spot and ponder a metronome by accident, then go to a bookstore and the first reference I see is pertaining to a metronome. And it wasn't in a music book either ! I can't enumerate the odds, but I'm guessing they're pretty low.
Spooky ? Shivers down the spine ? Not really, because this story, while unusual, had none of the usual trappings of portents, premonitions or dead people in it. Any reasonable person would just dismiss the whole thing as an interesting coincidence. But just imagine the same story transformed as follows (I'm assuming the role of irrational spirit-believer in this fictionalised first person account) :
"At this time in my life recently after the passing of
insert loved one, my thoughts were consumed by bereavement. I happened to be walking through the street one day when my friend and I went into a bookstore just to browse around. I spotted this great book on ornamental vases, so I picked it up and opened it up at random. Imagine my shock when the first picture was of a beautiful vase holding six lilies ! Lilies were the favorite of my dearly departed
insert loved one and
he/she was taken from us
six weeks ago at the age of
sixty ! What are the odds ?
I am certain this is a message from
insert loved one, and I am now completely sure there is an afterlife and
he/she is watching after me from the great beyond..."
A fairly analogous story, and it seems even a little more probable than my story. Yet it is loaded with a lot of subjective significance, and these may be seen as intelligent messages from paranormal forces by the gullible. You and I would likely dismiss it as a simple coincidence and possibly overthinking the significance of minor events, but you'd be surprised (or maybe you wouldn't) by how many people really think in this fashion. Sad.
What is worse, the story will likely become even more embellished by selective memory and wishful thinking. Little remembered details of the event may become molded to align with strongly recalled details surrounding the death. The vase may become transformed in the mind to be the same design as a favorite of the deceased. The bereaved one may suddenly recall that the deceased was also interested in vases, so it was a paranormal force that was prompting him/her to pick up that book in the first place. The page number may be numerologically linked by suitable contortions and bad math to bear some relation to the death date, birth date, marriage date, or any darn date that had the remotest connection to the deceased. Vagueness/inexactness never fazed a numerologist. I think we all know how these things go.
Sorry for the long winded stories, and I know this has little to do with the thread topic. I just wanted to illustrate a point or two about the unreliablity of anecdotal accounts and the gullibility of people, especially at emotionally fragile times.