DaleSpam said:
What do you mean by "underlying reality"? If you mean something that is not measurable then the topic is inherently unscientific: it is philosophy or religion.
If it sounds like that to you then I think that you misunderstand Einstein. Lorentz was the one proposing an underlying, unmeasurable physical reality which Einstein discarded and obtained a cleaner interpretation that made the same experimental predictions without proposing any unmeasurable underlying reality. That is why it gained such rapid acceptance by the scientific community.
In the title you ask if relativistic effects are real. The answer is, "yes they are real", they have been experimentally measured. If you claim that the relativistic effects are somehow not real then I submit that it is you who is asserting some unmeasurable "underlying reality".
Having articulated it so well yourself, it amazes me you still missed the point.
Science is about repeatability of experiments (act of measuring) in same/similar settings (equipment) with statistically insignificant aberrations in results (measurements). What is being measured still remains undefined, but results are all one cares about (not saying that's undesirable)
Now, as questionable the "photon bouncing off mirrors clock" is, even taking it as correct, the conclusion is not left at "photon clock reading will be lesser". It is asserted that the underlying "time" has slowed down. This is where the underlying, common reality concept is invoked. If photon clocks have problems at high speeds, use atomic clocks, or handwound clocks. No, no, "the underlying time" has slowed down, so it doesn't matter! *ALL* clocks will slow down, since all clocks measure the "underlying reality of time", so what's going to be different if "underlying real time itself" slows down?! This is the kind of argument that makes scientists lazy not to even try to do any experiments and find out.
It was Einstein himself (if i remember correct) who wondered about the identical twins paradox. Its highly presumptuous to assume Einstein himself didnt know how to apply SR to the situation which every graduate and their cocksure professors do it as a matter of fact. What I believe is his question came from he himself not making that leap of faith.
The dynamics of aging are not as rigorously understood and modeled as the photon or handwound clock. In the absence of experiments and/or cost and/or effort etc its conceivable why one would/should use the "underlying reality" argument(since not doing so would mean scrapping everything and just sit there doing nothing). But to start everything from "underlying reality" argument sounds suspicious (to me).
Assuming, penny at hands' length looks same size as the moon. is it same size as the moon? Thats roughly the siprit of "real" versus "virtual" in this thread. I understand the "real" and "virtual" in relativistic situations are much more harder to distinguish, but still they are not coincident.