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flyingpig
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Where is the "doctor" option? Free medical care anyone?
Are Scientists Avoiding Non-Scientist Partners Due to Compatibility Concerns?
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The discussion revolves around the complexities of dating and the fear of marriage, particularly for individuals in the scientific community. The original poster expresses feelings of shame in introducing their non-scientific girlfriends to their parents and a fear that marriage would signify the end of their personal aspirations. They reflect on the idea that dating someone within their field, such as a theoretical physicist, might alleviate these fears, as compatibility in intellectual pursuits could foster a deeper understanding of their lifestyle and ambitions.Participants in the thread offer varied perspectives on the importance of a partner's educational background. Some argue that emotional connection and shared interests are more crucial than academic credentials, suggesting that dating outside one's field can provide balance and new experiences. Others emphasize the need for mutual respect and understanding, regardless of professional backgrounds. The conversation highlights the tension between personal insecurities and societal expectations, with many contributors advocating for a more open-minded approach to relationships that prioritizes compatibility and emotional fulfillment over strict academic criteria.
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Hyperspace2
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it wil be funny to imagine two scientists marry and in honeymoon, they argue about
theories about cosmos and relativity.
theories about cosmos and relativity.
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Hyperspace2
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i think it's good to date a female partner and marry who is less qualified in your field. it will not bring ego problem.
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daveyrocket
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I spend all day around theoretical physicists. I've never met another group of people with such a high percentage of dull and boring personalities. I'll take a girl with no education and the ability to dance well any day of the week over a physicist.
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wisvuze
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the question should be: would a non-scientist date a scientist? :P
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Jimmy Snyder
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I'm out of the dating game since I got married. Still, I voted for no minimal requirements based on my past behavior. I know that sounds like I was desperate, but it isn't really true. After one particularly bad experience, I always insisted on a pulse.
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QuantumCandy
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eeep! this thread is very hard to read. at first i was thinking that you need to relax and get over it BUT then after thinking about my own personal experiences, i can say with certainty that finding someone who holds your interest is SO important. Usually that means having the same intelligence level and same appreciation and interest in academia. What i do not agree with, however, is that you need to date someone in the same field as you. It might become overwhelming. If you're parents would be ashamed of you for dating a non PhD then that is sad :(
Just look for someone who makes you happy, and someone who challenges you on several levels - and someone who is either in your intellectual demographic or who is passionate about many of the same things.
Just look for someone who makes you happy, and someone who challenges you on several levels - and someone who is either in your intellectual demographic or who is passionate about many of the same things.