Anttech said:
Lets define the war on terror first: Its a coalition of countries fighting against a few bearded men who live in caves with big mouths and extreme views. They have an ideology that is being enforced into many more moderate Islamists by the heavy handed approach and fear mongering that has been the policy of the coalition countries. Mostly the US with the UK towing its line (Which will stop May next year!).
We have to accept that some people don't hold the same values as we do. Their life perception is completely different from our own. Some even want to kill us because we don't think the same way. The reverse also holds true, I hear too many people say idiotic things like "nuke" them all (referring to the M.E.). However we just have to accept that not everyone will like our way of living.
The US, in particular, has to reverse its current foreign policy of "fighting this evil" everywhere, and fighting wars in the name of democracy. Creating an illusion that "we" are the good and "they" are the evil is just a load of nonsense, and is used as a nationalistic tactic, don't you remember the *evil USSR*?. Everywhere there is good and everywhere is evil.
The most simple and best way to fight this current war is to back off, get our of Iraq, slowly slowly (dont allow to happen what happened in Afghanistan the last time). Disengagement is what needs to happen! The radical Islamists won't go away, neither will the religious right, BUT the masses will stop supporting them if we don't give them a reason too!
No, it is not a few men living in caves. It is thousands of men operating world wide, with the financial support of multiple governments (case in point, the sauds supporting the 9/11 hijackers, Iran and Syria supporting hezbollah).
You are correct, however, in that we are not "good". I'll be the first to admit, the hatred these people feel for us is, in part, our own fault. This is nothing more than the culmination of half a century of failed foreign policy.
Nevertheless, there is a vast difference between the islamic extremists and us. Yes, when we wage war there are civilian casualties. Our bombs are only so smart, and it is an unfortunate fact that civiilans are going to die. We do NOT, however, go out of our way to deliberately target civilians. Nor do we behead captives on tape and air it to the world. Nor do we recruit young men to be suicide bombers for our cause.
As to your argument about our heavy handed approach turning more moderate muslims against us... that's nothing but propaganda meant to instill an appeasement mentality. It may be the case it will foster resentment against us, but there is a world of difference between resentment and whatever it is that motivates people to commit terrorist acts. Your suggestion is as ridiculous as the following scenario: You get arrested for a murder you did not commit. The media has plastered your face everywhere, and everyone "knows" you committed this crime. It will be impossible for you to get a fair trial, and your conviction and encarceration is assured. What do you say to yourself? Do you say: "Hmmm... everyone thinks I'm a murderer, and I'm going to have to pay the price for it anyway... I may as well murder people!" Nope, sorry, any rational individual would not come to this conclusion.
Appeasement will not work. We are at war, and we will stay that way until one side is dead or caves in. I suspect it will be us that caves first. Once we start experiencing car bombings and suicide bombers on US soil, the war will be over. The american people lack the will to fight this war. We lack the stomach and the resolve. We, as a people, are not willing to do what is necessary.