NeutronStar said:
I felt like screaming at the top of my lungs, "There is no explanation! Just do the math and accept the results!".
What! Who taught you relativity? I must admit that at undergraduate level, with so much thrown at me all at once, as a student I felt the same way. But that was because at the time I failed to appreciate the deep truths of SR space-time.
The mechanism is the metric with signature (-1,+1,+1,+1) or with the opposite convention if you prefer.
1. Is time a dimension like space, and should be treated with it in a space-time continuum?
This can be considered the basic postulate of SR.
If so then:
2. Is the metric, which connects events with their neighbours and gives a structure to the space-time manifold, given by an extension of Pythagoras' theorem:
dtau2 = dt2 - [dx2 + dy2 + dz2]/c2?
[In which case time is a dimension like the space dimensions, but it is not exactly the same. Mathematically time has the same relationship to length as the imaginary numbers have to the real numbers. The suggestion that if time is a dimension then it is subtly different from the others is, in my opinion, intuitively obvious.]
This can be considered the second postulate of SR.
If so, then:
SR is all about answering the question, "What is the nature of time, and how does it relate to space?" All flows from this metric and this concept of time. If an object is stationary in the coordinate system of the observer then
dtau2 = dt2
and
tau, proper time, is seen to be that time as measured in the rest frame of the object. Four-momentum follows immediately as a 4D equivalent of ordinary Three-momentum, with Four-velocity being the rate of displacement across space-time wrt the proper time
tau.
Consideration of the Four-momentum of a stationary object in the rest frame of the observe leads immediately to
E = mc2.
Consideration of the fact that
t is not the same as
tau for objects moving relative to the observer leads to the realisation that simultaneity is realtive to the observer and hence to the resolution of the Twin Paradox and the other paradoxes of SR.
The question is, "Does the theory work experimentally?" I think it does. Others may properly argue on the basis that the disputed results of various experiments may, or may not, agree with its predictions, but to argue on the basis that the theory cannot be understood and you have to, “Just do the math and accept the results“ only exposes your ignorance.
Garth