It was difficult to picture the Earth being oblong if it's not rotating. However, if you were on a non-rotating planet of the same size and mass as the Earth, and this planet was not rotating, but for some reason still kept its geoid shape (and the density variations that go with it), then the basic rule is that gravity (and therefore weight) decreases by the square of the distance. In this case, the square of the distance between the center of the Earth and an object on the surface.
If you take a person as an example, then let us suppose that we use some unit of measure that fits exeactly 1,000 times in between that person and the center of the planet, when that person stands at the poles. Assume that when the person moves to the Equator, the distance between their feet and the center of the planet increases to 1,002 (same units of measure). Then their distance has increased by 2/1,000 (.2%). If we also use some unit of measure for weight so that the person weighs exactly 100 something-or-others at the pole, then they will weigh .4% less (.2%2), or 999.6 s/o at the equator.
BTW, these numbers are generated ex posteriori, and do not reflect the actual eccentricity of the Earth's shape.