the guys at best buy told him that his speakers didn't have enough ohms
The speakers won't be harmed by this, but the stereo will. If speakers don't have enough ohms, then they will draw too much current from the amplifier, causing damage to the amplifier (or at least blowing a circuit breaker or fuse). Most amplfiers base the gain on voltage, and expect a specific amount of resistance to this voltage, based on the ohms of the speakers. Some amplifiers have a switch to toggle between 8 ohm / 4 ohms, and in some instances, 2 ohms. If you're speakers are between the amplifier settings choose the lower number, for example, if your speakers are 6 ohms, then select 4 ohms on your amplifier.
What damages speakers is excessive power, which results in excessive voltange and current through the speaker. You'll overheat or overdrive the speaker, causing damage.
The general ratings for a speaker are it's impedance in ohms (sometimes shown as a curve, since lower frequencies can involve higher impedance), the power handling in watts, the efficiency, and the response (typically +/- 3db across the frequency range for the speaker at a specific volume). Higher quality speakers handle more power and retain a relatively flat response across a wide range of volume (power input). Generally, some efficiency is sacrificed in order to retain a flat repsonse across the full range of volume due to negative feedback for control, and/or accoustic suspension for dampening the speaker system to prevent over excursion.
The popularity of home theater speakers which generally have loud but inaccurate base response, has reduced the market and increased the prices of good musically oriented speakers. I managed to find a pair of Energy Veritas 2.8 speakers (500 watts, 4 ohms, very flat response), at about half price ($1.5K per speaker), but these are no longer made. The next closest speaker system is $5k per speaker.
Probably the most accurate speakers are true studio "far range" monitors, the ones that handle the most power, but these are very expensive.
One other tidbit, some tweaters use piezo electric crystals to generate high frequency sound instead of a normal speaker setup. I've seen both 3/4" dome and piezo electric crystals used on good quality speakers, so I don't know if there's an advantage for one versus the other.