Thank you for the answer :-)
As I understand your answer, one can draw observer dependent maps if one insists, but that it really wouldn't change anything if one konws relativity...
What confused me, and kind of still does is the following nonsense ;-)
If I and a particle were to compete in the same 100 m race on the same track with me running really slow, and the particle traveling near the speed of light. Then as I understand it, the length of the track the particle traveled ,would get contracted from my perspective. That would, in my silly mind, imply two very different "realities" .
I do see a problem in the fact that a lot of particles pass me everyday and that I haven't noticed anything really weird yet,