Welcome to PF.
Technically an atom does not have an "outer diameter" in the same sense that a billiard ball has. usually a "radius" gets defined as the distance within which the electrons will be found some percentage of the time (like 98%).
The idea is to get a picture of the shape" of an atom, remembering that not all the shells are spherical.
So your question hinges on what you want to know for.
Generally electrons are more loosely bound if it is in an excited state (increasing that 98% probability distance)... some electrons promoted to higher energy orbitals. This can happen thermally or electromagnetically.