SlowThinker said:
I don't see how the metric could be anything else than Rindler metric
The Rindler metric is a vacuum solution (obviously, since it is just a different coordinate chart on Minkowski spacetime--but if you want to verify it, just compute its Einstein tensor, you will see that it's zero). So it can't describe a spacetime with stress-energy in it (such as a flat slab). The first paper you reference notes this.
SlowThinker said:
a fine tuned cosmological constant and horizontal tension inside the slab, both of which are, to me, obvious nonsense
The fine tuned cosmological constant in the first solution is unlikely, yes. But as the paper notes, if you want the solution to have certain properties, and if you take proper account of how to match the geometry of the infinite plane itself to the geometry of the vacuum region, you're forced to that assumption (because that's what computing the Einstein tensor of the metric tells you).
I don't see what the problem is with the horizontal tension in the slab in the second solution. It might seem unusual, but so is an infinite slab in the first place.
SlowThinker said:
Mathpages, and http://www.physicspages.com/2014/03/14/riemann-tensor-for-an-infinite-plane-of-mass/ and one other
paper conclude that the metric has no curvature.
That's because all of the metrics they write down are just flat Minkowski spacetime in disguise. This is easy to show by finding a coordinate transformation that puts the metric into the standard Minkowski form for each case. But it's also easy to show from the known fact that the only solution to the EFE which has zero Riemann tensor is flat Minkowski spacetime. If you assume Minkowski spacetime from the start, it's no surprise that you get it back at the end. And, as noted above, Minkowski spacetime is vacuum everywhere, so it can't describe a spacetime containing stress-energy like an infinite flat plane.
What none of these references do is actually consider the stress-energy tensor of the infinite flat plane, and its effect on the spacetime geometry at the plane, and how to match that geometry to the geometry of the vacuum region above the plane. The reason the first paper you reference gets curved metrics is that it actually tries to do this. And, as above, the reason the resulting solutions have unusual properties is that those are what it takes to realize, as closely as possible in GR, the intuitive picture of "the gravitational field above an infinite flat plane".
In other words, the first paper actually does the homework. The others just wave their hands.
SlowThinker said:
If you have some reference that actually solves the EFE instead of guessing the metric
"Solving the EFE" is a bit of a misstatement. Mathematically speaking, you can write down any metric you like, compute its Einstein tensor, multiply it by ##8 \pi##, and call that the "stress-energy tensor" of your spacetime. The question is whether the stress-energy tensor you get is physically reasonable, which is a matter of judgment and opinion (though there are fairly standard conditions in the literature, such as the energy conditions, that are used to classify solutions). That's basically what the first reference you give is doing: writing down metrics based on some assumptions about what a spacetime with an infinite plane of stress-energy in it would look like, computing their Einstein tensor, and seeing what that implies about the stress-energy in the spacetime.