jaketodd said:
I should not have said "large distances" in my original post.
Indeed.
jaketodd said:
I want to use it for masses such as the Planck mass, separated by a very small distance. No such equation huh?
There is the Newtonian equation, but of course it has not been tested on anything like such distance scales.
There is relativity, which mathematically has no restriction on how small distance scales can be, but which has other issues with a question like yours. See below. (Also, of course, relativity has not been tested on anything like such distance scales either. Nothing has. The smallest distance scale we can currently probe experimentally is a good 15 orders of magnitude or more larger than the Planck length.)
jaketodd said:
So gravity does indeed go to infinity in relativity?
If you mean, at small enough distances, no, for two reasons.
First, relativity has issues with treating objects as point particles, because that would require the object to be of infinite density and would therefore create infinite spacetime curvature at the object's location, which breaks the model.
Second, in GR, if a massive object gets compact enough, it will be a black hole, not an ordinary object. And the "acceleration due to gravity" above a black hole increases without bound as the hole's
horizon is approached, not as "zero distance" is approached. So the intuitive model you appear to have in mind, of having a "gravitating mass" that is arbitrarily small and can be approached arbitrarily closely, is not really possible in GR.