It's just an observable fact. There are different ways to see these sorts of phenomenon in classical physics with gravity and the electrical force, in thermodynamics,statistical mechanics with energy distribution, and these ideas carried over into quantum mechanics as well. For instance, you can also see this trend with entropy, as entropy tends to spread out energy as evenly as possible between all the available energy states. Therefore if you have one energy state higher than the energy state of nearby objects it will tend to spontanteously lose energy until its energy state matches that of its surroundings. That's just one way of seeing this motif (the electron energy levels is another).