brainstorm said:
Unfortunately, I understand the feeling of seeing that people are blind to see how their "sins" are harming themselves and others, and even though I believe that the discovery of sin and redemption is unique according each individual's personal life experiences, I also see a general pattern of people who cultivate denial because they don't want to consider the possibility of truth that interferes with other interests. You may be right that some people are using prayer as a weapon, but from the quotes you use to illustrate, there's nothing inherent in the quotes that suggests that people are not just lamenting about the unwillingness of others to open their eyes, and feel they have no other way to help them than prayer. Talking with people doesn't always get through to them.
I have been tested a lot unfortunately, and the only thing I've learned from it is that I have to work harder not to fall to my own cynicism, pessimism, or whatever other ideology would result from accepting negativity as an inevitable reality. I did that for a while, but I found it was unsustainable without some other practical level of consolation. In other words, I found that to avoid seeking solice in material comforts, it was necessary to work at pro-actively cultivating an ideology of hope.
The solution to destroying animals and their ecosystems is to support cultural ways of living that are less harmful. Like I've said in a previous post, I think about this every time I see roadkill on my bicycle.
I'm not a pacifist and I don't respect it as much as I should possibly, because I discovered how being a pacifist myself was a violent reaction to the visibility of violence, which cannot ultimately be transcended but only reduced. Pacifism is an ideology of hate/violence toward hate/violence which reproduced violence by reacting to it.
The hard thing about individualism is that you have to come to accept that individuals are free to choose destructive paths, and that them doing so is what causes so much destruction. Lasting peace will never be achieved through attempts to control individuals, and ultimately such attempts promote other forms of destruction. Some Christians simply recognize that Satan dominates the world, and the only hope is for individuals to realize forgiveness and virtue in their own lives. I'm sorry if this sounds like preaching. I'm just giving an example of how one ideology deals with the realization that it's not possible to save the world through governance. Of course, I don't see anything wrong with expressing hope through politics and at least trying. It's just that I also realize that there's no such thing as a lasting solution to problems.
You're assuming a lot. I don't think anything is fundamentally communal except the ideology of community, which is actually individual in practice. The "communal" dream is something I have experienced but I can no longer understand why people think anything positive comes out of communalism. Individuals can certainly live with an ethical interest in bettering others lives as they better their own - but this doesn't have to involve an ideology of community, and I think it actually works better when the community ideology is replaced with one of responsible individuality where individuals engage in cultural practices that are automatically beneficial to others than themselves. Vegetarianism is good for your health and leaves more land and water resources available for others to eat as well. The vegetarian individual is socially ethical without recognizing or participating in any defined "community."
Actually, if you understand the death-drive, according to Freudianism, it is a pretty general motivation for the spirit of killing and other destruction. It can occur relatively harmlessly, but it is never less than a potential spawn for escalation. It takes place constantly in the form of the desire for cessation of various things, whether those things are desired to cease because of their goodness or badness.
"Acceptance of reality" is an ideology that relinquishes responsibility for reality. I do lead by example, in that I am my own leader and I expect others to be their own leaders as well. I do not hide by reasoning or beliefs of what is good for myself and others. I don't need any right to live well and share how I do it publicly, because I am not forcing anyone else to obey anything I suggest. Sometimes people call me a dictator because I simply state my opinion about how people should act. I have no desire for anyone's freedom to be curtailed unless there is a non-harmful way to do so that does not undermine their political right to argue their own position and reasons.
Nonsense, history is a narrative image of patterns that can be explained in various ways. It is no easier to explain history than it is to explain social patterns in the present. When individuals' subjective field of possibilities is constrained by ideologies of historical patterns and trends, they are hindering their own freedom with their assumptions about the mechanics of historical procession.
If you are, in your mind, adapting to a reality you imagine to be beyond your control, you are in fact collaborating to create a social ideology of conformity instead of one in which social reality is the product of individual free will. If you see free will as a stumbling block for imperative realities, don't be surprised if your free will is treated by others as a stumbling block for their imperatives, such as procreation and population/economic growth, for example.
I cope with the dissonance of individual free will and the fact that social realism is an ideology that conflicts with the realism of materiality beyond human consciousness. You seem to be the one that tries to reduce dissonance by "adapting" or conforming to social-ideologies of realism that impair your faith in individuals to freely vote on the future through the actions they choose. I view both history and the future as the product of a free market of individual actions, even when many individuals choose to exercise their free will for the purpose of accommodating or "adapting" to forces they imagine to be beyond their influence. I do not think that any individual has the power to control others, but I think that each has the power to exercise as much influence as they have at their disposal. If you waste your power on reacting to ideas of things you can't change, you are wasting the opportunity to channel those same energies into the things you can.
Brainstorm, as much as this is, and probably could continue to be an interesting discussion, I don't think we're likely to agree on much beyond basic principles of how one should treat others (with love, kindness, and respect). I suspect that you're someone with deep faith (although I can't claim to peg you as particularly religious) and I am, above all, faithless. Frankly you WANT to be a better person that I even aspire to be, and you seem willing to sacrifice more in the pursuit of that than I am.
I do want to make one point clear: I take responsibility for my shortcomings, and I don't cheat. I don't cheat on people, I never cheated academically, and I won't cheat you in this by pretending to be more or better than I am. I know that I have the capacity to do far more good, but I simply do not care for others (who are not my immediate kith and kin) enough to extend myself in that fashion. You TRULY believe, as you said, in a hope that contradicts logic. I can respect that, and even understand it, but I don't share it.
I feel you've shared some personal aspects of who you are, so I'll do the same. I'm human, I'm not thanatophobic or thanatophilic beyond the average, and I try to takes Nietzsche's advice about monsters and the abyss. That said, we each react differently according to who we are. I can only say that I do not feel... tormented... in the way you described feeling in the past. I accept life on its own terms, and I have no ideology or religious conviction to elevate myself or others above other animals in my mind. I genuinely dislike a fair number of people, and my strategy for living is to cultivate a circle of people who not like-minded, but creative and adaptable.
Yes, one can adept in such a fashion as to become a metaphorical shark, and in doing harm to others you harm yourself. I believe that based on completely non-religious or spiritual grounds. People who hurt other people pay a price for that, but that isn't to say that such a price isn't worth paying sometimes. My hope, is that people, when pressed, will react to crises with more than fear and a desire to be dominated by a father-figure (see Bush+9/11). For every Bill O'Rielly there is a John Stewart, and just as it's inevitable that empires and civilizations rise and fall, that includes the people who bring them down, such as your example of Gandhi.
That said, history, which I believe to be an excellent predictor of future human interactions, teaches us lessons that cannot be ignored. Good people sometimes make a seemingly moral choice to withhold violence for their own sake, and the sake of others. Sometimes that is a terrible error. As the world we live in is morally grey in practice, we can choose to pursue a kind of unattainable self-perfection (which few people can, but some do), or we can pursue balance in ourselves. I try for the latter, not as a means of compromising principles I hold dear, but because I've learned from experience that people are hard to categorize. I may vent and say that "people are stupid", but I know that's just venting.
I try, very hard, to avoid ideology... I see it as a poison to individuality. One can have fluid views which adapt, alongside personal moral convictions which one will NOT break, and without submitting to an illusory authority or a false inevitability. My belief in, "doom" so to speak, does not result in a feeling of helplessness, or despair (usually). Rather, it makes me consider how one DOES move people at this scale. You look inward for a source of strength and conviction, whereas I turn outwards and prefer to exercise influence, often in a Machiavellian fashion. I'm not talking about accruing masses of power or money, but sometimes you need to manipulate people for their own good. It's not right, it simply IS. Have you ever scared someone so that they'll see a doctor, or a dentist? I don't mean that you lie to them, but that you confront them with the myriad consequences of their action or inaction. I have no right to do that, but then, rights are social constructs (in my view). Obviously if you believe in a divine mandate, that changes everything, and acting in accordance with that would be of utmost importance. I don't believe that however, and I think that basic difference... your belief in something more than us on a rock, and my complete lack of belief, is what is finally clashing.
In my experience, this is not something which can or should be solved. You have a life which seems to work for you, in which you strive to do the right thing, as you see it, and constantly re-examine your behaviour for inconsistencies with that ethic. I do the same, but our basic premise is different. The methodology still yields a more flexible and accepting individual however, and for that I respect you, even if our disagreements are profound and fundamental.
EDIT: btw, don't worry about the religion bit, I don't believe in them, but it doesn't mean I don't study them. Religion is a critical part history, and is too important to ignore. Judeo-Christian mythology is especially useful, given the sheer length of time it has persisted, and the number of people who ascribe to its basic ethics. Bhuddism, Hinduism, and others also match this I believe. I know some people who are scientifically inclined (such as myself) react badly to talk of religion, but I don't. I don't see it as a threat, and I can distinguish between you praying for me to see something you truly believe would make my life better, and some jackass launching a parting shot of "I'll pray for you!". People who don't care about others do not pursue these conversations with the conviction or vigor you have.