I don't have time to look up the required flowrates right now, but doing an indirect water heating system without a storage tank is an exceedingly bad idea - it isn't just about instantaneous capacity. Nevermind that at 4:00 in the morning, you'll boil the water in the heat exchanger because you don't have any flow - if some drunk or old person steps into the shower without checking the temperature, you could kill someone.
My boss has an indirect water heater tied to his boiler and doesn't have a tank on it - everyone who has used the shower or a faucet has been burned at least once. And his boiler "only" puts out 180F water...