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I wish more people would understand this concept:
When I see an adult shutting down a curious mind, I'm always disappointed.
When I see an adult shutting down a curious mind, I'm always disappointed.
This discussion centers on the importance of nurturing scientific thinking in children and the detrimental effects of adult intervention on their curiosity. Participants highlight the role of parenting and educational systems in stifling exploration and experimentation, often leading to a decline in children's self-esteem and confidence in their scientific abilities. The conversation emphasizes that children are inherently curious and that societal pressures can inhibit their natural inclination to explore and learn through self-experimentation. The need for adults to foster rather than suppress this curiosity is a recurring theme.
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That is my question: Who are those people who are «lacking all curiosity of the world»?StatGuy2000 said:My speculation is that adults who lack all curiosity of the world [...]
Curiosity and sense of wonder is killed in the child slowly through parenting and social institutions. Sit down, shut up, don't touch that, pay attention. Early childhood development is mostly achieved via self experimentation. Over time, formal instruction takes over and they learn to be spoon fed and take directions.jack action said:It seems to me that all humans (i.e. kids) are born curious. Their survival depend on this. They need to explore to adapt. Why does it stop to be the case for most of us? Why the need to «kill it» on others as well?
Yes, but why? Why does it seems to be the «right thing to do» to do so? Even if the politically correct answer everyone will say is to encourage curiosity and experimentation (which means that people understand what is the right attitude), the natural reaction is still to steer people (and kids) in the «right» direction.Greg Bernhardt said:Curiosity and sense of wonder is killed in the child slowly through parenting and social institutions. Sit down, shut up, don't touch that, pay attention. Early childhood development is mostly achieved via self experimentation. Over time, formal instruction takes over and they learn to be spoon fed and take directions.
I think it's a flawed system due to needing control and installation of strict code of conduct instead giving guidance and direction that is developmentally appropriate.jack action said:Yes, but why? Why does it seems to be the «right thing to do» to do so?
Children have less responsibility and can have more opportunity to think and play, and wonder, and depending on their impulses, try things. Adults, having more responsibilities to worry about, stop their play and curiosity - and sometimes try to stop it in others too.jack action said:That is my question: Who are those people who are «lacking all curiosity of the world»?
It seems to me that all humans (i.e. kids) are born curious. Their survival depend on this. They need to explore to adapt. Why does it stop to be the case for most of us? Why the need to «kill it» on others as well?
I'm not looking for blame, just understand the motivation.
jack action said:{snip]She was focusing on the quality of the answer of a 3-year-old, rather than the process he used to get to this answer. That kid was doing this process with no shame whatsoever. One can easily imagine that if people tell him that what he's saying is «stupid», he will stop doing things that lead to «stupid» statements. That is when shame comes into play and self-esteem & confidence goes down the window and kids begin thinking they're not good in science, they don't have the «gift».
A rather thorough explanation is in The Authoritarian Specter, Bob Altemeyer, Harvard University Press, 1996. The first part, with all the background info, is a bit tedious where he establishes his bona fides. The major part is quite informative and insightful (sometimes dense), it really gives a view into the minds of those <<lacking all curiosity of the world>>. Look it up on books.google.com. (There are even some free excerpts available online if you dig for them.)jack action said:That is my question: Who are those people who are «lacking all curiosity of the world»?
Nice blog for this discussion. There are some parts I disagree with, but I'll try to address only what is on topic of this thread.jfmcghee said:This blog post back in 2015 by Sabine Hossenfelder seems apt...
http://backreaction.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-wasnt-born-scientist-and-you-werent.html
is what relates the most to this thread. I'm not sure how much «good for them» is to frightening the kids that way (although I'm not saying a single incident like that is necessarily enough to influence an entire kid's life). Yes, they weren't burnt, but is that the only thing we care about? If a kid grows up to be afraid of everything, is «never been injured» such a plus in his or her life? I got burned in my youth (Once, when I was 8-9 y.o., I got off my uncle's tractor and used the exhaust pipe as a handgrip), the scars have healed and I probably have been less afraid and more respectful of heat sources I encountered afterward. It doesn't always (rarely?) end up with the most terrifying scenario.When the girls were beginning to walk I told them to never, ever, touch the stove when I’m in the kitchen because it’s hot and it hurts and don’t, just don’t. They took this so seriously that for years they were afraid to come anywhere near the stove at any time. Yes, good for them.
Expecting scientific thinking from everybody is needed more than ever today because there is so much information to deal with. Yet, it seems we prefer the «need-to-know» approach because we assume no one will ever be able to deal with such amount of information. But, it discourages curiosity and discussion, and encourages people relying on theses biases we naturally have, our last hiding place from the terrifying unknown.The more prevalent problem though is the social biases whose effects become more pronounced the larger the groups are, the tighter they are connected, and the more information is shared. This is why these biases are so much more relevant today than a century, even two decades ago.
Insecurity?jack action said:...
I'm not looking for blame, just understand the motivation.
jfmcghee said:This blog post back in 2015 by Sabine Hossenfelder seems apt...
http://backreaction.blogspot.com/2015/06/i-wasnt-born-scientist-and-you-werent.html
They are more than curious in my opinion. They also make hypotheses based on their observations as well.Mark44 said:IMO, it's a stretch to say that kids are "born scientists." Curious, yes, but curiosity isn't the only attribute of a scientist.
OK, fair enough. The adult response you're talking about puts me in mind of a story I read by Ring Lardner many years ago. In the story, the son asked a question.jack action said:They are more than curious in my opinion. They also make hypotheses based on their observations as well.
But the thread objective is not as much as to determine if curiosity is enough to define scientific behavior, as to understand why so many adults try to shut down or discourage this behavior.
“Are you lost, Daddy?" I asked tenderly. "Shut up," he explained.”
Not adults generally, but yes some parents can be overly protective of their children;jack action said:They are more than curious in my opinion. They also make hypotheses based on their observations as well.
But the thread objective is not as much as to determine if curiosity is enough to define scientific behavior, as to understand why so many adults try to shut down or discourage this behavior.
Adults get hit with real life and need to make practical decisions. Meanwhile children play.jack action said:They are more than curious in my opinion. They also make hypotheses based on their observations as well.
But the thread objective is not as much as to determine if curiosity is enough to define scientific behavior, as to understand why so many adults try to shut down or discourage this behavior.
Oooh! I like this one.symbolipoint said:Adults get hit with real life and need to make practical decisions. Meanwhile children play.
Aren't adults supposed to play too? When is that cross-over in behavior suppose to occur? My neighbor has cats and she let's them go outside from time to time. The - very well-fed - cats hunt birds and mice. They don't eat them, we just find a dead one here and there, once in a while. They don't hunt because they need to, they do it because it makes them feel good.symbolipoint said:Meanwhile children play.