Thanks all.
Let me summarize my understanding so far.
In the case of charged material and electromagnetic field,
[tex]\partial_\mu T^{\mu\nu}_{total}=\partial_\mu \{T^{\mu\nu}_{mateial}+T^{\mu\nu}_{e.m.}\}=0[/tex]
is the law of conservation of momentum and energy. Matial and electromagnetic field exchange momentum and energy. 4-potential of electromagnetic field [tex](\phi, \mathbf{A})[/tex] exists physically and it would provide/deduce energy to/from motion of charger materials..
In GR case where gravity requires covariat derivativation to be implemented, the conservation law is
[tex]\nabla_\mu T^{\mu\nu}=0[/tex]
Artificially we can interprete it in the form of ordinary derivataive equation by introducing pseudotensor t ,e.g. Landau-Lifshitz pseudotensor
[tex]\partial_\mu \{(-g)T^{\mu\nu}+(-g)t^{\mu\nu} \}=0[/tex], Einstein pseudotensor
[tex]\partial_\mu \{\sqrt{-g}T^{\mu\nu}+\sqrt{-g}t^{\mu\nu} \}=0[/tex]
So t is an artificaila tool for this intepretation. t is a fictious thing and does not exist. Gravitaion potential mgh or -GMm/r originated from t, are thus fictious also and do not exist physically.
The high school teaching that conservation of energy, mgh + 1/2mv^2 = const., works practically well but it is not true in this sense. A ball gets kinetic energy during its fall, but NO increase of momentum and energy in the sense of covariant derivation. We require the motion to be interpreted in the same way as in the not curved space-time and thus introduce fictious t for this purpose.
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