"If one can speak about gravitational lenses, why can't we assume the existence of gravitational reflectors..."
Because, in most basic terms, of the four forces (Strong Nuclear, EM, Weak Nuclear and Gravity), only the first three are known to act as both a repulsive and attractive forces. Gravity is attractive only. So, if "gravity waves", Gravitons, etc. approach a body they are attractive-only and would interact as such and not "reflect" back off that body. They (it, gravity) might change a property of the other body, such as its motion, and we might be able to detect that change by other means. But, the only "gravity" we could detect from the other body would be the influence of its own gravity/mass.