Interesting, and makes sense now. I see a lot of geometric arguments used so far to discuss fields - electric and gravitational so far. There are a lot of corollaries to the inverse ##r^2## relationship of distance and field.
I am finding it eery how many of these passages there are that aren't difficult technically, but just difficult to understand, not sure if it's the author or what. Here is another example:
Section 1.13 quickly derives the field of an infinite flat sheet of charge.
$$E_p = \frac{\sigma}{2\epsilon_0}$$ Then the text says
"In the more general case where there are other charges in the vicinity, the field need not be perpendicular to the sheet, or symmetric on either side of it. Consider a very squat Gaussian surface, with ##P## and ##P′## infinitesimally close to the sheet, instead of the elongated surface in Fig. 1.26. We can then ignore the negligible flux through the cylindrical “side” of the pillbox, so the above reasoning gives ##E_{\perp,P}+E_{\perp,P'}=\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}##, where the ##\perp## denotes the component perpendicular to the sheet. If you want to write this in terms of vectors, it becomes ##\vec{E}_{\perp,P}-\vec{E}_{\perp,P'}=\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}\vec{n}##, where ##\vec{n}## is the unit vector perpendicular to the sheet, in direction of ##P##. In other words, the discontinuity in ##\vec{E}_{\perp}## across the sheet is given by
$$\Delta \vec{E}_{\perp}=\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}\hat{n}\tag{1.41}$$
Only the normal component is discontinuous; the parallel component is continuous across the sheet. So we can just as well replace the ##\Delta \vec{E}_{\perp}## in Eq. (1.41) with ##\Delta \vec{E}##."
My understanding here is that the author is skipping some parts of equations because he is automatically simplifying them. This is how I depict the case of a very "squat" gaussian surface (red) around the flat sheet (green):
Gauss's Law
##P## and ##P'## are infinitesimally close to the sheet, so the cylindrical part of the pillbox above is so small that we neglect the flux through it, and only consider the end-caps of the cylinder.
$$\vec{E}_{\perp,P}\cdot \hat{n}_P+\vec{E}_{\perp,P'} \cdot \hat{n}_{P'}=\frac{\sigma A}{\epsilon_0}\tag{1}$$
$$\implies E_{\perp,P}+E_{\perp,P'}=\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}$$
To get the relationship in the text, namely
$$\vec{E}_{\perp,P}-\vec{E}_{\perp,P'}=\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}\vec{n}$$
I guess you would multiply ##(1)## by ##\hat{n}_P## on both sides.
The discontinuity in the electric field vector across the sheet is thus ##\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}\hat{n}_P##
If ##\vec{E}_{\perp,P'}=-\vec{E}_{\perp,P}##, which is the case for a flat sheet, then we simply get a vector form of our previous result for the electric field of a flat sheet
$$\vec{E}_P=\frac{\sigma}{2\epsilon_0}\hat{n}_P$$
Okay, so looks like I actually now understood all the steps by writing them down here. The result seems to be that when we model something as a flat sheet of charge, the difference in the electric field across the sheet (ie, the discontinuity in ##\vec{E}##) is ##\frac{\sigma}{\epsilon_0}\hat{n}##
Even if the sheet isn't infinite and we actually have an electric field component parallel to the sheet, the difference in the electric field vectors immediately to one side and immediately to the other is still a vector that is perpendicular to the sheet.