Here is what I have (I think I have (ii)):
(i)
Part 1: Clearly if a,b are elements of I, then a+b are elements of I (since I is ideal to R) and if a,b are elements of J then a + b are elements of J (since J is ideal to R)
If we have one element from each ideal, say a element of I/b element of J, then we must show a+b is an element of (I+J).
a+b is an element of R since a,b is an element of R and R is closed.
Part 2: Let a be an element of (I + J) and r is an element of R.
Then if a is an element of I, ar is an element of I and ra is an element of I since I is ideal.
Similarly, if a is an element of J, ar is an element of J and ra is an element of J since I is ideal.
In either case, ar is an element of (I + J) and ra is an element of (I + J)
(ii)
Part 1: Assume a, b are elements in I union J.
Then a + b is an element of I since I is ideal and a + b is an element of J since J is ideal.
Then a + b is in both I and J and therefore a + b is an element of I union J.
Part 2: Assume a is and element of (I union J) and r is an element of R.
Then, ar is an element of I and ra is and element of I since I is ideal.
Similarly, ar is an element of J and ra is an element of J since J is ideal.
So, ar is an element of (I union J) and ra is an element of (I union J)