Ryker said:
You're taking things too far here. You have successfully obtained a PhD, you can't just throw yourself into the category of "dropouts"!
1) It's my life and I can do what I want.
2) Seeing oneself as a dropout and a failure is pretty common amount physics Ph.D.'s, and something that you should expect if you go down that route. One thing that is interesting is that in some situations, the more prizes and success you have, the more of a failure you end up feeling.
You can ask some of the other physics Ph.D.'s that didn't to into academia what they think of themselves, and I think you'll find that I'm not that unusualy here.
We all know what was meant by the use of the latter word, and disputing what that word encompasses is beyond the point.
Something that you will learn when you talk with other people is to avoid statements like "we all know" since "we all don't know" something.
What happens is that there is a funny trick, you divide society in "winners" and "losers". The "winners" are hard working people that get all A's and are destined for greatness. The "losers" are people that smoke dope, have sell drugs, drop out of high school, go on welfare, and are generally people that you don't have to worry about. You are a "winner" so you can stomp down on the "losers". Because you get all A's, you expect to be a great success.
Except, in my case, I found out that life didn't quite work out that way. What happens is that when you are young, it's easy for people to make lots of promises. Get the A's, you'll be a success, because you are a winner. At some point, you try to cash in, and find out that you are a loser.
You can't skew arguments like that in your favour by arbitrarily choosing to argue a point by defining it in a much broader way than was originally meant.
I'm not arguing. I'm stating the fact that I see myself as a loser and a dropout, and so I have a lot of sympathy for losers and dropouts. Now if you want to argue that I really don't believe this then that's weird.
The rest of us were talking about A students as individuals and distinguishing between their personal traits and grades. But then the generalizations started surfacing about how B students are "better" than A students.
But there are certain personality traits that A students have that impact hiring. If you have gotten a B, I can be reasonably certain that you won't totally freak out if you get a B. If you have only gotten A's, I don't know this so that I'm going to have to ask more questions to make sure that you won't, that I woudn't have to ask someone that I know has been non-perfect.
Again, I fully agree we should talk about Frank, Mary and Jim, and my point is that if we do, your argument loses all footing.
It's not an argument, it's an observation.
Also, there is agreement in the abstract, and agreeing in a way that promotes action. Personally, I think that universities shouldn't be giving out grades at all, since at least when it comes to hiring, they are pretty useless.