If we take the SR example of the 2 rocket ships mentioned, if there is a taut, thin rope tied between them, if the rocket ships recede, the rope breaks. This is invariant in that every FoR will see the rope break. There is no FoR that will see the rope slacken. The rope, in the way I am understanding this, represents the proper distance between the two ships. In that if all frames of reference took turns in measuring the rope in their own FoR, they would all measure the same length.So if there is a FoR that uses a specific coordinate system which measures the 2 rocket ships to be approaching each other, but observe the rope breaking, then it seems to me that the way the rockets are being measured is in error. If there are many ways to measure something but they all give a different result, they all can't be correct in terms of the proper distance.
Is that not correct?