Let's Keep it PG-13! What's Your Fantasy?

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The discussion revolves around the whimsical idea of wanting to be or date a "secret-agent-cowboy-astronaut-millionaire." Participants express a desire for wealth and adventure, with many admitting a longing to be a millionaire or to date one. The conversation shifts to self-image and confidence, with some participants reflecting on their insecurities and the importance of self-acceptance. There are discussions about the nature of attraction, with some asserting that good looks aren't necessary for attracting partners, while others emphasize the need for personal growth and confidence. The dialogue also touches on romantic fantasies, with various participants sharing their ideal scenarios, from simple cozy nights to grand adventures. Overall, the thread highlights themes of aspiration, self-esteem, and the complexities of relationships and attraction.
  • #31
Re: what's your fantasy...

(1) A utopia society where money is rendered unnecessary for peaceful coexistence (kind of like Star Trek).

(2) I'd like to go back to undergraduate life, and do it over again (I really don't feel like I know anything).

(3) I think I'd like to become a priest and feed the homeless in NYC.

(4) I don't think I'd like to be President, so much as I would like to be appointed Secretary of the Department of Education.
 
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  • #32
DanP said:
I still get hit by women up to 15-17 years younger than me. It just happens. Youngest this year so far was a 20 years old. Women do hit on men. It also happens to one of my best friends, who just turned 40 this year and is married. I don't know for others, but I am willing to bet a lot of man get hit by women.

:blushing: yay!?
 
  • #33
AUK 1138 said:
I didn't read all of cronxeh's advice, but seriously dude, good looks won't provide you the confidence boost that comes from working on becoming a better a you and learning to be social with women. you'll get rejected a lot but you'll keep improving and that will give you confidence. (and the only realistic way. sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true)

my story with women's a lot more complicated than you think :redface:
 
  • #34
I read this on an Irish personals site. Paraphrasing "Looking for double-jointed super-model that owns a brewery. Open-minded twin sister a plus."
 
  • #35
An Isreali woman in full combat fatigues who is a Krav Maga expert.
 
  • #36
My wife when she is less inhibited. :-p
 
  • #37
Well, here's kind of what I was trying to say in another thread, regarding femininity versus the more overt aesthetic, physical attributes.

In keeping with "fantasy" (yes, I do actually attempt at least to stay on topic...sometimes), here are some film actresses I've always appreciated.First of all, here we have lovely Anne Bancroft...

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Notice, she's basically fully dressed (not even showing that much leg). But there's just something about the outfit maybe--or even just the expression on her face--that oozes womanliness (to quote a sometime more base self: "wrrrrrarr") .And then there's Elizabeth Hartman...

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Again, there is no obvious sexuality to either of these photographs--she's just feminine and beautiful. In her case, I think it's the eyes. Wrap even one of those "snazzy" burqas around her, and I think she'd still be alluring.Lastly, my favorite of all: Kelly McGillis...

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Kelly McGillis made AMISH sexy. That's pretty tough to do, fully covered. She has nice lips Kelly McGillis, I've always thought; and is little thick here and there. Very feminine.
 
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  • #38
Dont get me wrong, but in that pciture Bancroft looks to me just like she finished a 6 months cycle on androgen steroids.
 
  • #39
AUK 1138 said:
(and the only realistic way. sorry, but boy's dreams about having a woman approach them don't come true)

I think that all of the women I have been involved with approached me. I'm not even all that good looking. Every woman I approached shot me down. So I pretty much rely on women coming after me instead of the other way around. It works out ok I guess.
 
  • #40
TheStatutoryApe said:
I think that all of the women I have been involved with approached me. I'm not even all that good looking. Every woman I approached shot me down. So I pretty much rely on women coming after me instead of the other way around. It works out ok I guess.

Pretty much the same thing here. I actually think that men get approached by women on a constant basis, but I'm slowly starting to realize that it's almost impossible for men to realize when they're being approached in that manner (men and women tend to interpret certain types of advances differently...).
 
  • #41
theJorge551 said:
Pretty much the same thing here. I actually think that men get approached by women on a constant basis, but I'm slowly starting to realize that it's almost impossible for men to realize when they're being approached in that manner (men and women tend to interpret certain types of advances differently...).

If you are interested in her, believe me you'll notice. Else you won't notice even if he hits you with a jackhammer.
 
  • #42
A naked evening in an un-airconditioned apartment spent painting toenails and sharing Godiva chocolate and a Cabernet Sauvignon.

I need the practice. It's hard not to dab instead using the smooth, bold strokes one should. Except dabbing makes it take longer, which is good. But then the down side of dabbing is that she has really horrid looking toenails for about 2 or 3 weeks; so bad other women ask about them.
 
  • #43
BobG said:
A naked evening in an un-airconditioned apartment spent painting toenails and sharing Godiva chocolate and a Cabernet Sauvignon.

I don't have any fantasies that don't involve air conditioning. If anything, I dream about going to a hotel room where I can crank the air conditioner up to 11.
 
  • #44
Math Is Hard said:
I don't have any fantasies that don't involve air conditioning. If anything, I dream about going to a hotel room where I can crank the air conditioner up to 11.

I know a hotel where you can crank the air conditioner volume up to 100 decibels - 1 decibel for each BTU/hr of cooling power.

It's great! You can't hear the people in the next room!
 
  • #45
theJorge551 said:
Pretty much the same thing here. I actually think that men get approached by women on a constant basis, but I'm slowly starting to realize that it's almost impossible for men to realize when they're being approached in that manner (men and women tend to interpret certain types of advances differently...).
My wife is about the only woman that I had to pursue. Two of my longest-duration "significant others" were during college and they both turned on the charm so high I couldn't help but notice. The second one (whom I ended up living with until she graduated and left school) saw me coming into the bar of a local motel one winter evening, came over and asked if she could sit with me if she bought me a drink. I wanted to pinch myself, just as a reality check.

She was almost 4 years older than me, baby-faced, and fit (lifeguard at the U of M pool).
 
  • #46
DanP said:
Dont get me wrong, but in that pciture Bancroft looks to me just like she finished a 6 months cycle on androgen steroids.

:confused: Well...she isn't wearing heavy make-up, if that's what you mean.

Personally, I don't think women need make-up (it'd only be covering up what God and evolution have done perfectly to begin with). If she wants to, that's fine.
 
  • #47
FrancisZ said:
:confused: Well...she isn't wearing heavy make-up, if that's what you mean.

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No, I mean IMO she has masculine features in that picture :P
 
  • #48
DanP said:
No, I mean IMO she has masculine features in that picture :P


To each his own, I guess. I just don't see it. If she were a guy, she'd be a fairly short cross dresser--certainly not the ideal I aim for in myself (and miss frequently :biggrin:).
 
  • #49
Not to be annoying, but maybe this is a better picture of facial features.

Silly, frilly pants aside, I think she has a nice curled lip...

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  • #50
I just found out that one of my favorite actresses of all time, (Kelly McGillis) is not really into guys; so even though there was already no possibility of my ever getting to meet and know her personally, now I know exactly what a snowball in hell feels like. :(

So very sad. My delusions can't even reach fruition now. It'd be like: "Hey, here's some flowers...oh...oh...yes, I see...no, I understand...I respect that…but...what…you still really don't want them though, huh...now where is that rock I usually crawl under?"

She was married a couple of times already (I think even had children) so part of me is like: "Hey, there's still a chance!" :) But no. Fantasy self-terminating.
 
  • #51
What's my fantasy? The picture says it all. :!):!):!):!):!):!):!):!)

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  • #54
Reminds me of a text I read long ago about a method of cooling implemented somewhere, sometime, supposedly. It consisted of huge wet cloths hanging down that were fanned and was supposed to create a cooling effect in the room.
 
  • #56
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or

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I don't know much about the first one but I know the second one has a boyfriend and looks bit stupid.
 
  • #57
Well she hasn't aged all that gracefully, but when she was a starlet...

sigh...

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  • #58
DaveC426913 said:
You do this stuff?? That's hot. I want to have your children.

That was a very hot summer, and I was at my wits end to get some relief. It actually wasn't that difficult to build the cooling system - just very time-consuming to carefully coil and attach the copper tubing to the fan without kinking it.

It was fun because I got great advice from PF and from the staff at the hardware store. I have this wonderful small, old-timey hardware store in my neighborhood and when I told them what I was building, everyone was excited and wanted to give their ideas, and they even asked me to bring in pictures of the finished project. :smile:
 
  • #59
Math Is Hard said:
That was a very hot summer, and I was at my wits end to get some relief. It actually wasn't that difficult to build the cooling system - just very time-consuming to carefully coil and attach the copper tubing to the fan without kinking it.

It was fun because I got great advice from PF and from the staff at the hardware store. I have this wonderful small, old-timey hardware store in my neighborhood and when I told them what I was building, everyone was excited and wanted to give their ideas, and they even asked me to bring in pictures of the finished project. :smile:

HOORAY FOR INGENUITY! :approve:
 
  • #60
Math Is Hard said:
That was a very hot summer, and I was at my wits end to get some relief. It actually wasn't that difficult to build the cooling system - just very time-consuming to carefully coil and attach the copper tubing to the fan without kinking it.

It was fun because I got great advice from PF and from the staff at the hardware store. I have this wonderful small, old-timey hardware store in my neighborhood and when I told them what I was building, everyone was excited and wanted to give their ideas, and they even asked me to bring in pictures of the finished project. :smile:
Now that's a true PF fanstasy come true. :biggrin:
 

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